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Theres a lot to do. So you doing out tonight then?
Got u… personal assistant lol.
But some friendly advice here lol…you obviously love him and want to make it work. But you have your own life and you dont want to waste it away waiting.
Id give him a set target say if hes not sorted in at least 2 year your leaving, and stick to it.. there are woman on here who have put up with her husbands like this for 10 year and same with my gf. But we have kids together.
You have your own life aswell. But plz dont take that the wrong way.
Pa? I work in the bank in manchester.
Your both only young. I was late starting on coke i was 25. Im 36 now. I wasnt that bad for a few year. Just the odd time.
But ive always said.. im glad it wasnt that bad as it is now when i was younger. A lot of teenagers are on it now and with it being soo addictive. Young people go out every weekend more or less… they will be having coke every weekend, and they just will think its a social thing. But as they get older and stop going out, alot are addicted to it already and start having it on there own and at work.
Im basically saying if your young on it and your addicted, i wouldnt like to be in there shoes. My advice to anyone is .. dont even attempt to take coke
My sons friends all sell it on snap chat and insta! Pictures of the bags saying 2 for 60! Its madness. But my son doesnt hang around with them anymore
Good on you!. I bought a safe and only my gf knows the pin.. she use lock my phone in it each weekend so i wouldnt ring anyone lol.
Im not that bad now though.
What job you got?
How old are u both if u dont mind me asking?
What beach was you at?
Im the same i had a good upbringing. Nice house. Holiday abroad every year. I had great times with my mates a teenager.
And i was on weed till 19, and i basically messed up in school, and i regret it to this day. Im in a good job now but like my teacher always said.. 1 bad apple always spreads. So i regret hangin with some of my mates now.
This weekend get to the pound shop or something, get a calander a big notepad, and right loads of things to do and stick them on your fridge and tick each day off clean and say gym done today..
You will lapse, its apart of recovery. It makes us stronger. Just dont beat your self up, and get back on track!. Dont listen to yourself when your brain is saying.. its not working this… this is you just making excuses to use. Rise above it.
Your just gonna have sit down with him and have a good talk, you obviously want to make it work with him. So tell him he gets the help and start putting the effort in and proving to you he is. Or he carrys on using and you just stay with him and put up with it. But if you have no kids, i wouldnt go start a family till he is fully clean. Thats just my opinion.
But since ive found that castbox. I listen to others to keep me occupied.. i love karl pilkington and ricky gervais so im listening to them now and watching them on podcast.
Do you know what helps me and it keeps my mind off it and it does work.
Try and have some earphones on you all the time and listen to cocaine recovery stories on you tube.
Download the app castbox .. theres loads of podcast.. and search the alan charles show… hes an american who was addicted to coke for 24 year. He was really bad and has some stories to tell and hes 11 years clean now. He has about 70 1 hour episodes on so far. He has various ex addicts on aswell. And he tells some of his stories and how he quit. You can hear his story on you tube aswell.
Russell brand is good aswell he had a bad addiction.
There was on woman i was listening to and she had a horrible story, to why she was addicted to crack.. her dad sexual abused her and her mum new, so she said her mum sent her to her grandparents to get her away from her dad, she didnt want to leave her husband, and the woman said.. were her dad had stopped, her grandad had took over. This lead her to crack to blank things out. What a horrible childhood. But she got clean and is telling her story. There is always someone worse, and im telling you this because you can do it! Just believe in yourself.
But everytime you feel bored or need do something listen to these stories, even when washing up.. i do.. or tidying up. You get so enticed in there stories it distracts you.
Beach? Were u live?
To be honest, its best being totally honest with him with everything. Thats my opinion anyway.. but dont be blaming me if it goes tits up lol..
But seriously tho.. it is… because it gets it off your chest. He will know what he is dealing with and how to support you.
Have you said out to any family members?.
Well hes obviosuly getting on it again. Soo what are you going to do?
Have u told him? Or are u not bothering?