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You are right, if he wasnt on the come he probably wont be cheating, but its one of them, u wont ever know..
Your in a crappy situation were if you leave and he does commit suicide, your obviously going to blame your self its human instinct, and i dont mean to upset you, but do you seriously think he did nothing with the prostitutes? And if he never he went to meet them for sex. Simple as. Im doing my best to stop coke im lapsing once a month and i cant stand the stuff. So i know how your husband feels and how awful the stuff is.
But my advice is.. is that you have a couple of options..you stay with him, he gets the help.. no more cheating and if he keeps relapsing your leaving.
Or your young.. do you really think is he going to change and you pack your shit now and move on and may be still support him. Your probably going to be looking over your shoulder all your life with him till the next time you get hurt.
Id personally have a good think what you want to do. Its not all about him. You need to think of yourself.
What are you using mate?
Ill let u know in about a month if its working lol. Good luck ????
No feel free to ask me anytime. I forgot say.. i had hypnosis last week for it last week. £85 for one 2 hour session. I dont feel like using but i seem to lapse every 4th week. It use be a lot worse than that. But im controlling it a lot better now. So ill have see if it works
Your problem is not when your out of cocaine, your problem is cocaine!. And when you have no cocaine you go to a meeting and talk it relieves the stress..
You need to change your life around now, your normal daily routine has to stop!
Start at the gym.. go for walks, runs. Take up some new hobbies! Anything! Have a good think and write a daily plan and stick to.it.. ive took reading and im loving it!. Have faith and believe in yourself.
Your stuck in a rut and need to get out of it. New hobbies and a new routine will change your mindset. Trust me ive done it and i feel better and fresh!
You just need to get over that 1st hurdle. Take baby steps.. 1 step at a time.
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Its a cocaine anonymous meeting. Or alcholic one. Ill find one now for you.. you go and talk to others with the same situation as you. It helps people to quit and works.
He needs to see a doc to see how bad it is.
Maybe if the doctor sees it and says.. if you carry on you will lose part of your nose in the middle. It might make him want to stop. So id mither him to see the doctor and it could help both of you really.
Well can you not get to any C A meetings?
Louise clarke is her name
Watch this video if you can. This woman has treated people for coke and crack problems, and she explains it all in good detail and how to stop.
Watch “Part 1 ‘Stop Using Crack/Cocaine and reclaim your life’, the recovery process revised” on YouTube
So whats he saying then? Is he going to carry on as normal? Or try and get help?