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Just try and make him aware that the money he puts up his nose could be going on the children, and no doubt your children get everything anyway.. mine do.. its just wasting money and my gf does this to me, and it upsets me and shes right.
Delete all dealers numbers and block them
Why would you wana feel good when you take it? The obvious problem is coke! Making you feel like this. You need find ways to stop!
It gets to the point as well , you need coke to go out or you wont be happy till u get it.
Its a real sneaky drug.
Well ye it would work both ways.. hes high and happy and talkative and prob thought he best tell you..
I never tell my gf i use, but when i come down i tell her. And then she goes mad.
He could be using at work. I know a few that do.. that could explain why he wont sit and have a coffee.. it knocks your appitite right out the window.
Ye i can see were your coming from. And there is nothing wrong with that.
But alcohol is a main trigger to get coke. The minute i drink, i want coke. So i dont drink unless i go out, which is very rarely.
But.. he has to look at the facts.. hes got a hole in his nose, he is an addict. Does he still want to go out twice a week knowing this? I know people who use each week and they dont have holes in there nose. Only times ive heard about that is like that daniella westbrook and kerry katona.. were they wake up taking it 1st thing in the morning, and plzzz dont think im having a go.. i am not.. im just making you aware because it seems you dont know much about it.
He might not have much and it might just effect his nose worse than others.
Have you got kids?
Its a good wage. Just asking because with coke and how much you earn i guess has an influence how much you have of it, depending how bad you are. Because if you get one you get another, when that wears off you get another..
But if you have no money left, you just leave it there.
Does he want to get help?
Has he a got a well paid job if you dont mind me asking?
Have you not noticed him at all on it? Sniffing? Sneaking off? Coming back the next day? Or anxiety?
He must be using a hell of a lot for his nose to get a hole in. Maybe in the morning as well. Im doing my best to stop coke. Im having it once a month. When its wearing off it sends you depressed and suicidal. I imagine hes told you as he is coming down wanting help.. but i could be wrong. But i doubt it, as it makes you do things like that and then be normal.the next day.
1st off if his nose is like that, he needs stop asap. I dont think its like heroin were u need weening off it. He needs to want to quit himself, and with his nose being like that id go see a doc, and get my self to a cocaine/narcs meeting straight away. He obviously is bad. Sit him down and ask him how long and how often and how much is he using. Tell him you want the truth or we wont able to fix this..
If he wants to quit he needs to.. delete all dealers nums out of his phone, friends and family who take coke. Come off all social media, and replace his routine with a new 1.. with new hobbies to replace his usual routine of having coke.
No drinking alcohol as well.
Does he go out alot?
I tried hypnosis last week, ive not used yet. And tbh i feel alot mentally stronger. But i guess ill have wait a few weeks to see if it has worked
Thanks.
How much u having?
I forgot to say i had hynotherapy last week to help me stop for good, it was £85 for a 2 hour session and all i need is one.
But only time will tell,ive not had out since but its normally the 4th week i do.