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To be honest he really does need to want to quit himself. Your right though.. it is the devil. Its such a sneaky drug, and it makes you cause arguments with your partner as an excuse to get it. Its a very clever drug and messes with your brain.
The problem is as well, the more money your earning the more you will tend to have, and the worse you will get. Its everywere now, its in every pub, people take it to work. Its easy to get dropped off aswell..
How much is he spending a week?
How you doing now hannah?
Hi there.. im in the same situation as your husband… and i cant stand the stuff! Im lapsing once a month. And there are a lot of simularities with your story that are same as mine. Cocaine makes you do stupid things and its like the devil on your shoulder. Coming down off it, it makes me depressed and suicidal , and i have kids and i regret it all the next day.
Im doing various things to keep me occupied.. ive took up reading, more sessions in the gym, i listen to coke recovery stories. A bit of russell brand and his addiction stories.
But i lapsed this weekend after a month again.. and today i had a hypnosis session for £85 for 2 hours, and thats all i need to stop and he had great reviews! So fingers crossed it works! Feel free to ask me anything
Well it sounds like he could be on crack if hes dealing with people on crack.. but i could be wrong. He needs help really and to avoid all these people.
His friends seem to have been decent enough to tell you the truth. Does he want to stop?
Buy him the food.. dont give him any money..and i know its worrying. My mum does as well. Have you sat him down and talked to him about it?.. maybe sit him down and if he wants to stop try and come up.with a plan of action to help him.
If he wants to.. he needs give up alcohol as this is a big trigger to get coke. He needs to delete all dealers numbers, friends who have coke, family who have coke. Delete all social media.. avoid anything and anywere to do with coke. Its hard dont get me wrong. But admitting you have a problem and wanting help is a big stepping stone towards stopping.
Does he want to quit though? You can go on at him all day long. But if he does not want to stop.. he wont put the effort in to.
And i wouldnt give him anymore money what so ever, unless its for food.
To be honest.. its everywere now.. every pub.. it can get dropped off in 10 mins.
My sister knows a drug councillor and one of her clients in the past was a ryan air pilot.
Im laspsing once a month on coke. I was doing great friday.. its a long story.. but the dealer came past my house friday and offered it me. And i took it. If he wasnt there i would of been ok. It is will power but everyone is different .
He needs to delete all dealers nums. And even come off all social media. He needs to shut every one out. And no alcohol. Alcohol is a main trigger to get coke. Theres a good app called pocket rehab that helps you.
And i recommemd for you and him to watch a video on you tube of.. louise clarke on crack and cocaine part 123.. she is an expert and knows her stuff.. and goes into detail why we get addicted to coke and how to stop.
At least he wants to stop which is great. But.. if he works with people that do coke.. sell it… its going to be hard.
Ye i understand kate.. you cant risk out like that with your grandson. Does he want to stop?