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Ive been good thanks..not had out.. i wouldnt say ive craved it , but just thinking things like… do i want to get some? How do i feel about getting some.. its hard to explain really…its sort of like im testing myself to see if im ok. And at that moment when i was.. i was just telling myself.. what do i want that stuff for.. all the negatives of the drug was winning in my head. Which is great. Im going deep into it hahha sorry lol..
But ye im not craving it.. back in the gym twice a day now.. at work at night im doing hiit training and the day im doing weights. IM eating healthy again, and i dont at all feel like having it. 4 week it is now. So i really want to build on this. If my gf goes out. Im just going to stay in. 🙁
Gods honest truth now. Get a councillor, cut everyone off.. even if its for 6 month till your heads back to normal. Set some goals. Take some new hobbies up. Spend every weekend in the house with plenty of family time. Yes it is hard, but you will be gutted if you lose it all and get worse.
Im always here if you need out pal.
Maybe you need to see a councillor regarding your mums death to do your best to come to terms with it. Im no doctor but that could be an underlying problem
2nd whats more important.. your mates who you get smashed with or your little girl growing up with her dad?? I know which one id choose. Ive cut all my mates off.. ye i do lapse every 4 week roughly but im doing my best. You need get new friends who dont use. You will always be in a vicious circle if you use with your mates. I had the best times ever with my mates. But when i look back.. id rather of got my head in the books than drugs…
Cut everyone off.. spend the money on.your little girl.. play with her, and enjoy as much time as you can with her. Mates are nothing when it comes our children.
Haha… it wasnt like that when i was there.. but it was a bit quiet. We all loved it but we wouldnt go again.. think we are just going to stick to spain from now on lol
Sorry to hear about your mum. Do you think you are taking this much coke to numb the pain??
Anyway im doing best to quit coke i cant stand the stuff. Ive not had it for 3.5 week now. If you really want to stop. Delete all your dealers numbers. Social media. Get a new number. Dont drink any alcohol.
Stay away from people who do it. Try and find some local c.a meetings. Ive never been but they do work.
You need to change your whole life around now and routine. Get some new hobbies. Watch louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123. Shes an expert on coke addiction and you will learn alpt from her vids.
Can your gf not even tell you are on it?
Take each day as it comes. When you wake up tell yourself.. you are going to stay clean for today and today only. Thinking to far a head is not good.
Its defo not a one off if you ask me. But just keep an eye on if hes no money, or going out alot, sleeping all day because he is up all night.
Hope your alright mate.. ive got a coke problem. But im doing my best to quit. Im lapsing every 4 week. But it varys it can be longer. And i cant stand the stuff.
Going back to your questions.. he has to want to quit.. and then you can help and support him. Maybe he needs to hit rock bottom. My rock bottom was when i was on a bad downer and wanted to commit suicide. Then the next day i just thought of my kids and what it would do to them. It broke me. But i still have not fully got rid of it.
Either get rid if hes not prepared to get a job, or he keeps robbing or lying.
Or sit him down ask him does he want to quit it? Do you still love or want to be with him? Or just there for his health? Because you have your own life aswell.
He has to sort himself. And seek the help. Im doing a few things to help me.
Ye course it will still be hot.. was 35 degrees when i was there for a few days.
I wouldnt worry about it haha i thought.. shes having a rant here lmao..
I think a week is more than enough anyway. I get way too bored. My gf just wants sit by the pool and i hate it. I get so bored and just want to go for a mooch.
Were abouts are you going? Well its good hes not relapsed. I wanted to stay in turkey away from it all. I think if its near you, thats why you get it because you no you can.
How many horses have you got? You dont look the type that has a horse lol dont take that in a bad way lol x
Ye every shop is snide haha.. they wont let you leave the shop till you buy something haha. There funny tho.
You hear all them stories about they love blonde hair kids and all that crap. Its all bullshit. They was great the turkish people. Really friendly. There is a lot of russians they are really rude and shove people out the way. But i guess it depends were you go. We went to antalaya but marmaris i think its called is suppose to be great. And a lot better. We stayed mainly on the complex and there is security so it was safe. My cousins apartment got robbed in turkey. But it can happen anywere really.
I know lol and after seeing your pic no wonder he decided to stop doing that when you packed your bags hahah x
Hey georga.. i just landed.. turkey was great… way too hot for me tho hahha. Im burnt all over. But downfall was the hotel beer. They was only putting a tiny bit of gin in the gin and tonics. And others.
So how much are you spending on it?? Do you really want to stop? What have u tried to?
How often are you doing it?
Are you still doing it mol?
My advice is.. and its your life so do what you feel is best for you, so dont be saying.. im not taking any advice off him lol
So you could either.. if you still want to be with him, move him back in on the condition he cleans his act up, stays away from bad people and help you and the baby. Your going to need rest when the baby is born and help with night feeds and so on. It really is draining.
He cant go awol and have his phone off. And he gets help for the coke.
Im only saying this because if you want to be with him and not living together, it will be a lot harder for you and he will just be on that stuff most of the time.
Or just go it alone, if hes not prepared to get his act together. Which will be hard for you. But it will just make you ill. Most women on here will tell you get out now while you can who have partners on coke. And they are right. But time is a great healer.
But i hope you sort it what ever happens.
I remember when my ex was pregnant with my 1st born. I was only 19. Coke wasnt in my life then. But i was there all the all the time and i loved every minute of it. I dont get how some people can just not seem intrested.
He might be a lot worse on it than you think?? What do you want to do now though?