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Its not work hox.. its general stuff.. she tidys the kitchen i make tea.. and she goes ape because the kitchen is a mess.. but i say im making tea.. and this is everyday.. shes a gas lighter i can go into detail. But ill be here all day

[danman83]

Hiya ive seen an expert talk about these for coke addiction as she asked a chinese herbal expert whats good for cravings.they are called…. jia wei xiao yao wan you can get them on ebay.. they are tiny little black balls.and you take 10 when you think your going to crave. There are some priced at 12 pound for 2 boxes.. 400 balls altogether. Its worth a try instead of buying heroin. Im on my 2nd lot. And they do help.

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You can tell he really wants it. Its a shame how just after 6 month hes done it. Maybe something is really bothering him.

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Heres my num {NUMBER DELETED}. I bet it is hard. But if you look at it in a positive way.. its one blip in 6 month. And if he gets to the end of the year its 1 blip in a year. Which is great.

Ye im good thanks. My gf is giving me greif all the time. I work nights and im sleeping litrally 2 hours a day. And she expects me do everything all the time and im physically and mentally drained from her lol. Shes been going on at me today. But im not rising to it so.i dont get that stuff.

2 week sunday.. yipeeeeee haha x

[danman83]

How you doing georgia? Are you still at your mums?

[danman83]

Youve done the right thing there. Putting him straight. Its a bit mad locking himself in the bathroom. Can you tell straight away when he has had it? My gf can tell a mile off.. im 3 week clean today and not thinking about it as much. Ive just ordered some chinese herbal tablets that are good to prevent drug cravings and depression. Ive had them before and they help.

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Hows he feel now? Whats he said?

[danman83]

Well he needs to avoid pubs and clubs for a start.. and alcohol is the main trigger to go and buy coke… so he might not like you telling him this but he needs to stop drinking. Im not going to paint it nice and say he can have a couple just for a meal or something.. because he cant… if he is bad on it… he needs be alcohol free.

Plus he needs delete all dealers numbers out his phone. Not hang around with his mates or fam members that use. Delete all social media. Ive come off facebook and insta.. and it does help a lot.

I also listen to a lot of and watch cocaine recovery stories. These help alot and you can relate to them. Maybe go to C.A meetings as well.. i never have but they do help.

And he needs to turn his routine around.. do new hobbies, set himself task. Like go to the gym.. for 3 month 5 days a week and get to a certain size. Just some goals to acheive, it can be anything readlly. I took up reading and i have never really read. Tell him look up the triggers for emotional, mental and physical relapse.

He needs to tell himself when he wakes up.. hes just going to stay clean for today.. not 3 month.. just today. Its all anout one day at a time.

Im not going to lie its hard.. and his brain will trick him in to getting cocaine.. its a real sneaky drug. He needs to be aware and really want it. Good luck.

Just ask if you need out

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Its a bit mad how after 6 month its just totally gone backwards. Try and have a good weekend and relax x

[danman83]

You can only take so much mate. You have helped him out so much. And you didnt even drink on your holiday. I couldnt see many gfs doing that.

And that what you said yesturday.. were he said he will be ok having it socially.. his mindset is totally changing back to it.. which is not good at all. I think like that sometimes.. then i think to myself what am i thinking.

Me personally i think your better off having a break from it all and think of youself. Its making you ill like you said, and you have your whole future ahead of you, and dont need to babysit someone 24/7.

You have no ties and time is a good healer as they say.

What ever you decide i hope it works out for you x

[danman83]

He might of got that stuff drunk and is in bed rough.

Why did he have a drink tho? Its like its all turned upside down in a matter of hours for him.

Send him a text later or something later to see if hes alright. You know that stuff can make you do stupid things. Im just being honest with how it makes you down. If u get me. Hope your ok

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Dont worry about it. Just ask if u need help with anything.

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Sorry if it upset you. But i genuinly didnt mean to.

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