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And it was advice.. dont get with anyone with cocaine problems. As i have seen what it has done to my gf with me
Think you took it the wrong way.
Well do whats best for you. If your not happy. Move on. And make sure you ask the nxt guy if he does coke lol
I dont blame you. What do you want to do now tho if u dont mind me asking
I recommend you watch louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123.. shes an expert and has treated lots of people and explains in great detail what it does.. if your an addict and how to stop. Feel free to ask me out. I can explain more how to help him to stop. But he needs to want to 1st. But the longer the years go by and hes still using. It will get worse.
Hi there.. ive been using coke for 8 years roughly on and off.. i started when i was about 25 after a bad relationship. I am doing my best to stop.. im lapsing roughly once a month. At the start of the year i was 2 month then lapsed.
I cant stand the stuff anymore.. it sends me really depressed and suicidal when its wearing off. And a lot of people have commited suicide from it. A few people i know as well.
To be honest hes young, he is going to want to go out and its everywere now. And i mean everywere. I can get some dropped off in 5 minutes if i wanted to. It was on sky news the other day about how bad the uk is addicted to coke. Its frightning.
My son who has just finished school.. his friends sell it on snapchat for everyone to see! Its crazy!.
If you want your son to stop.. he really does have to want to stop. You can not make him. Im 35 and can cut people off now as i have a family.. but you will find it very hard to tell a 20year old stay away from mates.
Id suggest making him aware of how bad it is.. and how he can be spending money on better things. Maybe sit him down and ask him how often is he using and how much is he spending. But be amicable about it as shouting will just make him have an excuse to use.
Would he go mad if you went out with 2 lads and your mate? Its a bit disrespectful if you ask me.
Have you any kids?
If you have no ties with him and he doesnt want to get help. Either put up with it. Or leave.. is he trying to stop?
If hes not willing to accept hes an addict and doing his best to change. Then you should think of yourself to.
Im doing my best to quit coke. I cant stand the stuff. That were he has admitted it to you.. he was probably on a downer then.. as it sends you depressed and suicidal in a lot of people. But when hes said hes ok again.. its obvisously worn off..
Im lapsing about once a month. But i am doing my best to stop. That with the girls.. my gf would go mad.. and im not gonna lie to you.. it does make a lot of people to cheat and im not saying he is.. he might not be like that one bit. But just be aware of it. Good luck
How often are you having it? If your having a bad day at work.. go to the gym and let some steam off.. or a bath and listen to some music.. going the pub and drinking is just going to make you want to get coke. Sometimes.. well most times.. its your brain playing tricks on you because it wants coke.. so your thinking ive had a bad day at work.. fuk it am going pub.. but your brain secretly knows you will get coke.
It does get better.. its just hard. But you also need put the effort in. It should be a bit easy for you saying as you have to travel an hour a way lol.
I know.. ive thought do i really want to be doing this at 50!
Thats what you suppose to do.. talk each other out of it when u get the cravings.
No i.just get it dropped off. Drinking makes the comedown worse for me..
And i use take some sleeping tablets straight after.. but ive binned them now. They wont be good for you mixing them. Having that shit has a roll on effect with everything. I wish i never had the stuff.
Been a week.. i go turkey in 30 days. So im gonna do my best till then not to use..
I more or less dream about it every day, that im using it and i wake up feeling gutted. Well my main problem is how i got addicted to it.. this is what ive learned, is that from using at partys and pubs and then when that stopped. I still wanted it.. so i was having it on my own in the house. Not all the time but quite a bit.
Which is sad on my own i know. And id just do gambling on me phone or summat.
Thats why im doing my best to stop. And recently its been when ive been out.
Im in manchester.. its everywere round here.. i can get some in litrally 10 min.
Im not strong enough though lol its really hard. I neally lapsed last night. But thank god i never. I was thinking about it all night.