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I am not no doctor. But addicts who are preganant who use everyday.. there babys have come out addicted to the drug.. but yours was the once. I wouldnt worry to much. Just in no way what so ever do it again. Or drink..
But then again im no doc. You know your own body. And if something doesnt feel ok.. go straight to the hospital. Try not to worry as stress wont be good for the baby neither.
Regarding test.. im not to sure.. if they do blood test.. i dont think they test for drugs.. but u never know.
Just stay positive. And stay away from that stuff or people with it. And dont go near that stuff again. Try not to worry.
Ive thought the same.. i wish i could start my life again. The best advice i can give some one regarding coke. Is dont ever try it full stop.
I think i might try a hypnotist after my holiday. Ill try anything. I still feel down from friday. How often do you have it?
Dont worry about waffling on.. it helps people and me. I use be bad on weed aswell. I.always said id never do coke.. then 26 year old i 1st had it.
I know what u mean about hiding and deleting nums it doesnt work. I wish if i didnt have kids. I could just go to 1 of these scottish islands and stay there for 6 month and help a farmer free of charge for a bed. And just beat it that way. Away from everyone.
Have u listened to alan charles.. he had a coke addiction for.24 year. And hes beat it.
Sorry to hear this.. how much and how often does he have it?
He really needs to want to quit himself.
How.much coke and how often is he having it? Im doing my best to quit coke. And have it about once a month. Im also on seratline and have been for 18 month. But i dont see any probs with it. But mixing any drug isnt great.
Id be more bothered of getting his coke problem sorted 1st. Does he want to quit.
Coke makes you really depressed so thats prob why hes on that.
Hope your ok.. im in the same situation as your partner. 1st he really does need want to quit.
Alcohol is a no no.. when addicted to coke. Its the main trigger to get it.
If he wants to stop he needs to not drink at all tbh. How often is he having and using?
You dont always have to get help. But if he is not. He needs to change his daily routine around and change his life around. Take up a new set of hobbies. And implement them in his life. Its hard, and ive lapsed this weekend. I feel broken again. But i just have to get back on track.
I cant stand the stuff, and wish i never even set my eyes on it. Ive been reading books on addiction and listening to stories. That helps me alot. Feel free to ask me out
I wouldnt even mention out about your kids. Mine have an excellent upbringing. Just leave that out. And get yourself sorted.
Aright mate.. i am exactly the same as you. I have a gf and 4 kids between us both. One each from another relationship. I work hard and again. My kids have everything we need and were going turkey in 5 week.
But my story is.. its been about 8 years once every couple of week i have it. Not as much as you. But that doesnt matter one bit. Ive stopped for a month.. 2 month and 3 month. And sometimes once a week.
I hate the stuff. Its everywere.. moving wont help you? Havent you seen poltergeist? Lol No matter where you go it will follow you. You have be strong as afamily unit.
And its easier said than done. Ive lapsed this weekend. And im absolutely gutted. Im on a comedown and its not shifting i feel so depressed from it. I hate myself for what im doing.
This stuff is everywere.
So when are you getting it? In the morning for the day ahead ? Or at night? How much are you having a week?
What ive learned for to beat it or help.. ill share with you but i cant say nowt since ive lapsed. And you probably know anyway.
But delete all dealers nums out your phone, delete face book and all social media. Dont drink any alcohol.
Change your daily routine around. Read books, yoga, gym, walks. Anything different to your normal routine.
I watch and listen to cocaine recovery stories on you tube and podcast.
Pocket rehab is a great app to download were addicts talk to each other.
Also watch some videos on you tube on louise clarke on crack cocaine part 1 2 3
Shes really helpfull and knows how to beat it and has helped lots of people.
I know what you mean about the kids and that and its a horrible thought. But just dont give up on quitting and stay positive. I hope you sort it. Message me anything if u need to.
Try and do it every other day for a week. See how you feel.
Aright summer.. i was bad on weed when i was a kid. Mainly from 14 to 18. Litrally everyday. It sent me phycho a lot.
But i managed quit in the end. And it was hard. But the main thing is you want to quit.
For me to quit was pretty basic, i wanted to go in the army and i had to pass a drugs test. I had 6 month i think to get clean. And i got a calander and crossed each day off as didnt touch it. I lapsed a few times. But i hated the stuff in the end. It stops you doing so many things.
But the other thing that will help is.. i changed my life a round. I had to do oots of running to train for the army and gym work. So you also need something to keep you occupied and stay focused.
The gym is perfect to quit weed. And start eating healthy.
Dont worry if you lapse its apart of recovery and will make you stronger.
But also try other things to keep you occupied. Good luck mate
Well i know what id do if i was you. Good luck
And if hes making you out to be a different person, thats exactly what he wants. Hes probably making you feel week. Id move out and start again. But i dont want to be giving you bad advice. So do whats best for you. No one else. Hes thinking of him self. YOU DO TO!
Right well if you have no kids. Id be brutally honest. Get out now.
My gf has stuck by me. But i want to quit. And i go a month with out and we are a happy family. And we both work very hard. And do not struggle.
Its your life but this is my opinion. Get rid. Tell him come back when he sorts himself. I know its hard losing anyone you love. But hes dragging you down. And hes useing you. It will be hard at 1st. But after you will feel fresh and a new lease of life. Trust me.
Or you can stay with him and give him one last chance. But as you have no kids. He doesnt work. I know what id do. Good luck and ask me out
Also.. i listen to and watch cocaine recovery stories on you tube and podcast. These help so much. And you can relate to them alot.
Plus you tube louise clarke on crack cocaine part 123. And she will help you a great deal about coke and how to beat it.
Just think the amount of time we put into thinking about getting coke.. going getting it.. useing it.. in bed comeing down off it. And we could be putting it into a lot better things and you will feel a lot better. Just weather the storm.and you will get there. Stay positive