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But if u give him a chance. Sit him down.. swear your head off at him.. tell him these are the rules.. thats fuking it now! U change your life around or im gone.. simple as.. and help him if he decides to. I know its hard.
But this is all i can suggest. He really does need to want to quit tho
Im trying to send a big message bit it wont let me
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I didnt go to meetings. I went to one on one councilling sessions and learned techniques how to quit.. it helps alot more when you really want to quit.. you can put it in front of me now and i wouldnt want it.
Plus.. your hubby needs knock everything on the head btw.. the drinking wont help.. when mixed with coke.. it forms another drug in the body.. i forgot what its called now. Basically its worse with beer.
It sounds like hes really stuck in a rut ajd only has you..
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Do you still want to quit coke mate? Ive lapsed a couple times this year from it. But im on the right track
Plus if you are struggling now.. barely feeding the kids.. ill let rip at him.. and set some boundarys now.. and he needs stick to them.. at the end of the day.. your going to have to do tough love. Your kids come 1st. I know i have a problem as well. But all my bills get paid. And everything for the kids 1st.
Tell your hubby and you if you want.. this month ive downloaded castbox. Download it! Its all different podcast.. but search the alan charles show.. every episode he talks about his 24 year addiction to coke.. how hes been clean for 11 years.. all his mad storys.. he even had a woman on today.. talking from your point of view.. and what to do in your situation..
Theres loads of cocaine podcast.. these help me alot. And keep my mind occupied
Listening to cocaine recovery stories helps alot.
But what ever you do its your decision.. but my opinion.. you cant keep having him taking the piss out of you if he is missing bills and you are stuggling.
Can you not have all his wage put into your account from now on?
Feel free to ask me anything
Hope your ok.. i know what your going through as i have put my gf through all this. Well not all. I never had it were it got us in debt. He must be having a hell of a lot.
Ive lapsed a couple of times this year. But i cant stand the stuff and i am doing my best to stop.
1st of all cocaine makes you so depressed and suicidal coming down off it.. its terrible. I know a few people that have commited suicide through it. This is why i am.doing my best to stop.
Obv your husband knows how to stop.as he has been to meetings.. but my main trigger is alcohol.. so i do my best not to drink.. does he drink? He needs quit altogether.
And your in a bad situation.. u kick him out. He does something bad.. you dont forgive yourself.. or he stays and carrys on taking the piss…
I can only suggest.. you sit him down may be with his fam as well..and lay it down to him 1 last chance he gets help.. and thats it.. even try a hypnotist. Im doing that after my hol..
How much is he having if 1500 is going missing… were is he having it? Is he on his own having it?
Tell him downlad an app called pocket rehab. Its great
Cocaine can make u do.crazy things.. it makes u so aggertated and paranoid.. there is no fun in it after a while.
He really needs to do his best to stop.. does he want to?
Cocaine is addictive as hell.. it causes me to be depressed and a lot worse when its wearing off.. is he still on it? Does he want to stop?
Well the only other thing i can think of.. ill tell you how my gf best mate.. how her bf and what he did on coke.. he unscrewed everything eletrical in the house thinking hes being watched.. he accused her of sleeping with asians… and he found an asian passport of a guy in the house.. he showed it her and it was a cut out of a kids book of a made up play passport…
She came home and he had a machete on him in the house saying people are coming.. no one was obv..
Then he was missing and he was seen and pics uploaded on fb.. of him in someones back yard no socks or shoes on drinking water from a hose pipe. He got sectioned after that. Too much coke and no sleep makes you have a mental break down. You recan it could be that? If hes not enjoying it anymore. Its just gonna get worse.
Hiya lauren.. for a start if hes having it 3 or 4 times a week.. he must be addicted to the stuff by now?.
Id be more worried thats your bf is a coke addict by now and he needs help. But he needs to realise this himself.
Ive lapsed a couple times this year off coke and im doing my best to quit. But because your question isnt really about you want him to stop i wont answer that.
But going back to your original question.. were is he when hes having the coke? Is he in his house or on nights out?
If he says he will be paranoid if you call.. why should he be, if you know hes having it?. He could either just cba to reply to you.
Or… if hes on a night out.. i aint going to lie to you. It does make you horney.. and flirt a bit.. and cheat.. so does alcohol..
But then again. He could be doing nothing.
But id tell him get help if i was you and sort himself quik. Its leathal that stuff. And i wish i never started it.
Thats great am happy for him and you.
What was the food like? I ask everyone that haha.. i love food abroad..
Im doing hiit training in the gym at mo.. love it lol..
Well am am ok.. but i lapsed last week, i went out in town.. after a month.. but to be honest im doing and feeling a lot better and have it more under control. You could hold it in front of me now.. and id tell you .. get that away from me!
It took me about 4 days recover.. i got in from town about 6am and had work that night. I was well pissed off. Im not doing that for a long time. I think im going to go to a hypnotist after my holl, and yeee its 57 days away haha i really cant wait. Im staying in till then, and then im going to decorate the front room and buy some new things for it.. so hopefully ill be ok.
And thanks for that.. but i really think i need to help people the best i can.. it helps me as well. Im in contact with 2 other women off that pocket rehab who have probs with it as well. And they are thanking me a lot as well, bit bad really saying i cant stop fully my self lol.
Hope your ok klc, im im the same situation as your husband..
My story is.. for 8 years ive been having it on and off.. like once every couple of week just on a friday.
I realised i had a problem when i was having it on the house on my own. And how 1 bag can lead up to 2 3 or 4. My come downs off the coke had gone worse, it was making ke depressed and suicidal. And i even tried it at one point.
Coke makes you really depressed and suicidal. Its not good at all.
Ive got a gf and 3 kids and i realised i had to stop.
So about 3 year ago i got help. And quit for 3 month. Then since then ive just lapsed after lapse. But its cut down a hell of a lot.
This new year was my last straw. I quit for 2 month. But lapsed.. my gf wanted us go to a party but i said ill end up getting that. She said.. you will be fine.. but i wasnt..
Since then ive lapsed once a month.
Which is am on the right track.. i can not stand the stuff.. i hate it.. i wish i never took it.. th3 main trigger for coke is alcohol.. does you husband drink?
I deleted all my social media and took up hobbies. Its hard sticking to them.
But how often is your husband taking it? If hes in bed everyday all day.. is it everyday?
Does he still want to quit?. I can imagine what your going through. Its not fair on you or your son. If i can give any one advice on cocaine. It will be to dont ever touch the stuff! It ruins familys and is so addictive and a sneaky drug.
Hey georgia! How was the hol?? X