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For a start.. if you said hes always smoked weed.. i think your answer is right in front of you. Weed makes you so paranoid its unreal not to everyone, but thats the main side effect.
Then again cocaine always makes you paranoid… especially when your on it. When hes come home inspecting everything is he on coke? Because it could be the coke. Ive heard people do strange things on it.
Then the other one is.. he could of been up to no good himself and he takes it out on you. Ill be honest cocaine does make some people cheat. Just like people blame alcohol on cheating..
Has he quit it then?
I have the same problem as you guys. But i seem to have it under control a lot better than before. I seem to lapse once a month now. The other month it was 2 month without.
What are you doing to stop? Do you know about dopamine? Do you feel down and suicidal from it all?
Does he have money problems tho? I know its not my bussiness.. but if hes saying these are the problems and work.. maybe help him with these problems or guide him.. then he cant blame it on them… and then see were you are then..
Whats the problem with his job?
And if he has bouts of deep depression .. drinking wont help one bit as its a depresent.
Hes obviously got a problem. But he needs to admit he has..
My personal opinion is be nice with him and tell him you are there for him, but he needs to get help, before he damages himself, and he gets his life back on track and stay positive.
If he refuses, tell him if he gets worse he will have find somewere else to live. Hes making you ill aswell.
But he really does need to get help. Theres a great app called pocket rehab for addicts and ex addicts and they all talk to each other and help each other with there problems. Its great and it does help.
Has something happened to make him him like this?
I dont understand what you are talking about? Lol
Hey len.. im doing my best to stop coke. Im 28 days clean today. I only had it once every couple of week. But it sends me really down after it.
I can tell and help you alot more. But how often is he using? How much? Whens he lapsing? Does he want to quit?
How is he now is he still doing it? Sorry for.the late reply.. have you tried saying to him.. he either sorts himself out and gets help.. or your moving on?
Are you the person who was saying your bf has no1 else? Im trying to remember if you are?
Just do what you thinks best for you jenny. You can only try so many times. Have you no other kids that can talk to him?
Hey jenny.. hope your doing well.. your in a situation were, if hes not willing to get help, you dont want to kick him out, incase something happens so you have to take the shit basically.. or you kick him out and tell him you have done your best, he will have to learn the hardway.. or tell him.. thats it now, you get help, he proves to you that hes getting help or he leaves. Thats only advice i can give.. if hes not prepared to get help.. do you want to live like that anymore? Its not good for you? Is there no family member that can make him see sence?