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Hi lillies, hope your ok? Sorry to hear your story, its upsetting you saying.. all you wanted was your dad, and its history repeating itself.
Im in the same situation as your bf.. except i hate the stuff and i am doing my best to quit. Ive lapsed twice this year.. but i get straight back on not having it the next day.
The come downs are awful on coke and send some people suicidal.
Personally you seem like you know what your talking about and you know your stuff, so the only advice i can give you..
Is fair enough hes your 1st love.. but are you really happy? Your still only young. Id have a good think what you want out of this and were you see your self in 5 10 years time.
Or tell him hes on hisast chance, he gets help or your leaving.. but thats just my opinion.
You can get coke in a village? Really?
Tbh its everywere, i know so many people that are doing it! Its horrible
Basically.. coke is leathal, you can drink as much as you want and stay the same level basically.. you wont be staggering like your drunk for instance..
Do you know what dopamine is?
When the coke is wearing off it makes you really, really down and some people suicidal. It makes me feel suicidal. One reason i want to stop, as i have kids. One min your up the next it comes crashing down!
Then you want more. Ive learned so much about it. Its not good at all chloe.
Well.. try and catch him out one night! Lol does he have it in the house? Go bed and sneak down.. see what hes doing lol.and check his history quick haha
Ive got the same problem, but i soo much want to stop. Ive lapsed twice this year. I hate the stuff. And i am doing every thing i can to stop..
But ive never really got the urge to watch porn while im on it.. i might do you know what to send me sleep lol but thats it.
So what do you want to do with him? Are you staying with him while hes on coke? Are you asking him to quit? Does he have alot of it? In the house?
But i guess the cheating does depend on the person, but all the factors of drinking, coke, feeling horny can lead to cheating.. i just dont want be putting things in your head that he is haha
Listen.. what he says and what he does are two different things.. he might be good when your there.. but i dont know him , so he could be good.
Ye it can make you flirty.. and tbh he shouldnt be watching porn all the time. Ive never really been open up and told my partner i watch porn. I keep that to myself. But i dont watch it religously.lol
Hi kcloe , and yes it does make you cheat! It makes you horney as anything. Sex is great on it. If you can manage it.
I cheated once on it, and i regreted it. I know a lot that have. Even girls. He more or less was up to summat when you caught him online.
Ye i am thanks.. still soba lol take me instead! Haha hope you have a great time! Try and have a drink! Lol x
Aright jenson.. im exactly same as you.. 8 years , every couple of week.. getting 1 g o a friday night.. leading to 2 or 3.
I have 3 kids as well. I have the biggest downers on it, and it sends me suicidal. And i cry my eyes out. I cant think of anything worse. I was even taking it in the house on my own.. anyways 2 years a go. I hit rock bottom. So got councilling sessions and i got it under control abit.
This new years eve was the last straw. I quit for 2 month.. then lapsed.. then 5 week clean then lapsed. Now am back clean again.
Ive studied and learned so much how to quit and it works.. to a certain degree and ill explain what i do.
My main and most peoples triggers to get coke.. is alcohol.. you have to quit that totally! Not even a sip..
Next.. delete every dealer out your phone book! Every mate and family member to do with coke. Delete facebook and all social media!.
Change everything you do, start some new hobbies.. i took up reading, and i do alot more with my kids.. i did anyway, but i do more now. I go metal.detecting now with them.
Just think how many hours you are off your head and downer for 6 -8 hours? And that time can go.to your kids.
Watch some louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123. Shes great and helps alot with addiction.
Listen to cocaine addiction recovery stories on you tube or castbox. They help a lot.
Theres an app called pocket rehab, download that. Its were addicts help each other.
Avoid places that will trigger coke, places you picked up, places you used.
Oh.. and avoid pubs, partys, bbqs, you might think thats no life. But it has be done.
My gf has stuck by me, god knows why. But i wont have it through the week or every week. But i do feel like wanting it.
I cant stand the stuff mate. Its horrible, the come downs are horrendous, but yet we still go back to.
And to do you best to quit you have to be 100 percent you want to.
Hope this helps. Just ask if u need out mate
Well my best mates sister who was 40, and a good friend died of lung cancer and it spread like wildfire.. from a diagnosis at xmas she died 3 month later this year. She smoked weed everyday, and had a pain in her side all the time. But smoked weed more to get rid of the pain. But that obv was the cancer..
You can give him as much advice as you want, my mums always truking people who have died in my face from coke, which i dont blame her, but its not just going to make me stop like that. If you new some1 died from drinking today, would you not drink again?
The main thing he really needs to want to stop himself. He might have to hit rock bottom and have enough of it. But just make him aware, you dont get motivated enough and do anything with your life, and you get real bad paranoia.
I was bad on weed shelly for a bout 5 years as a teenager. I made my mum n dads life hell. It made me really angry all the time.
But then my life just flew by.. getting stoned all the time, just makes you not wanting to do anything all. Even tho i had great times. I regret doing it.
Any ways.. i wanted to quit.. i never smoked.. just weed… the way i quit.. i was 18 and decided to go in the army.. knowing i had a drugs test 8 month away. This was my focus! And i got a calender, and ticked each day off at a time.
I got there in the end, but i failed a medical. And didnt join. But in a way, i think it was me deep down just wanting a way to quit.
Your bf needs to want to quit no matter what. If hes planning on leaving you for it.. pack his bags for him lol.
Or tell him to cut down.. say every other day.. then weekends.
Does he smoke just weed or cigs aswell
Ive just seen your message from a few week ago
I wasnt being ignorant. I forgot were u was up to lol 🙂