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Ye its good, it sounds like he wants to quit.
If his mates all do it. He really needs new mates or only see them when they are not using.
It sends you suicidal and depressed, so hes better off it. I wish i never started it.
He needs look up.. emotional, mental and physical relapse
This will help him to cope with cravings and things that trigger wanting to get coke.
Id also keep checking on him, making sure your there for him.
Thats perfect to get away and plan. Good luck
Hi tara.. georgia is right. He has to want to stop and then go from there. Sit him down have a reasonable talk with him.. no shouting or getting angry with him.. as this can put pressure on him as an excuse to use. Make him aware of it. And also maybe you should watch louise clarke on you tube her crack cocaine part123 videos, are very helpful and then you will know what you are dealing with. Ive had it once in 3 month and im doing my best to quit it and im doing good so far. Just ask if you need any advice.
Hi red..ive got a coke problem ive had a relapse the other week after 2 month.. but im back on the clean again.. so ive had it once since new years eve. Ill tell you how ive controlled it or stopped and hope it helps…
First i stopped because the coming down off coke sends me depressed and suicidal. And with me having kids aint good at all.
I was having it in the house on my own! Only once a week, may be once eveey couple of week..
First of all.. you have to want quit.. 100 percent u need to not want it.
You have to delete all dealers, mates who take coke, numbers out your phone. Delete facebook! All social apps!..
Take up some hobbies.. i have took up reading and i never read. Which helped.
Take the kids out more. Dont take any alcohol what so ever! As this triggers it.
And watch louise clarke on you tube on crack cocaine part 123. She helps a great deal..
Also there is an app called pocket rehab.. down load that if u want. Its a bit like fb but with addiccts and ex addicts all helping each other. And if u feel like using, you can press an emergency button and it puts you through another addict and they help you to not do it. I cant recommend it enough!
Hi ive got a coke problem. And i hate the stuff! Im doing my best to stop! I had a lapse after 2month last week. But im back not having it again this week.
I have a gf and good job and a fam of 4 kids. When hes saying a life of women and coke and partying? I take this is other women? And not you?.
I can give you loads of advice for him to stop but im not. Im going to be honest. Id grab your fuking kids and run. And dnt look back. He does not care by the looks of it. And him disappearing, he prob has cheated.. i might be wrong. But i recan he as on that stuff.
You need seriously think is he gonnna stop? Does he want to? What means more u and the kids.. or coke and partying and women.. then theres your answer what to do
I want to stop.. im doing everything possible to.. ive deleted all mates nums.. dealers.. deleted facebook.. took up reading decorating. More time with kids and gf. My life feels so much better.
But he thinks of himself by the looks of it.. so you need to!
U seem like a decent mum and work hard.. so whats made him go like this if u dont mind me asking?
Have u got kids? Gf?
Wow.. 20 g is a lot mate.. ive had it once in the last 9 week. I lapsed last week..
Your obvioulsy addicted to it. And it will only get worse.. watch some videos on louise clarke on crack cocaine part 123. On you tube. Shes an expert on it. And u will learn alot and she helps you to quit.
What i do to stop is.. cut all your mates of to do with coke! Block there nums, block everything, delete facebook any other app to message mates n dealers.. avoid alcohol.. this makes u want it.. avoid triggers spots.. like say asda car park.. if u picked coke up there. Dont go past there. Stuff like that. Theres an app called pocket rehab, download it. Its for addicts that talk to each other.. it helps so much!
And if your selling it. You will never stop. Till ilu stop selling it
Aright mate..ive got a coke problem. I was 2 month clean till last week. But im back to not having it this week. I was having it in the house on my own after my nights out had stopped.
I hate the stuff and im doing my best to stop. A few facts tho here mate.. if you have had coke for 6 month, weather its once a month for 6 month. Your adddicted to it! It sends you suicidal! Depressed all on come downs. You tube louise clarke crack-cocaine part 1 2 3. Shes an expert and you will learn alot about the stuff and how to stop.
My trigger for getting it, its alcohol.. so i cant drink anymore.
If you want to quit.. you have to want to quit.. delete every ones nums out your phone to do with coke. Change your routine around. Dont go out with coke heads at night.
And gods honest truth.. its only get worse. You do need help.. as you know it your self.
Do you dream about using it?
So sorry hox. Hope your ok
I couldnt of said it better pal. I wish i never touched coke. I relapsed after 2month last weekend. But im on the mend again now. My gf has stuck by me. But doesnt support me as much as i think she should. Ive had it in the house on my own, and the downers on this stuff is horrible. I never want touch the stuff again. But if i drink alcohol. Thats it for me. Im on the phone for it