[danman83]

Yes we live togethee with 4 kids between us.. we are just a regular family.just spend it with the kids really.

[danman83]

No its the thought i have to stay in.. and me worrying if shes gonna cheat. Ill be honest i am paranoid. Lol

[danman83]

Sorry lou ive been off for a couple of days i wasnt being ignorant. Bad news if hes living with a dealer. I couldnt think of anything worse!

At this moment in time me giving advice after lapsing after 2 month, just feels wrong lol but im all for it. As i feel like i dont want that stuff again. Are you in your house on your own. If you are try and take some hobbie up so to keep your mind off it. But the gym is perfect from today. Sort a 1month programme out for your self. A good diet.. if u want to gain weight or lose. Set your self a goal! And stick to it. Go gym fri night.. instead of drinking. How come you no one to talk to?

[danman83]

Thank you louise..all at work this week.. on my night shift ive just felt down from it.. and if someone put it in front of me id say get that shit away from me!.

But this is my main problem and any advice will do.. me and my partner cheated on each other years ago. We was both para for abit and wouldnt want to go out. But she does now and we have been out a few times before new year. And thats when i get coke mainly. Sometimes in the house. But thats totally stopped. If she goes out i just cant stay in. But she doesnt really do. Ive asked her just help me till our hol in july and spend weekends together. So im 4 month off at least. But im worried if she goes out after that. I will want to. But im hoping ill be ok? My heads up my ass lol

[danman83]

Cheers mate

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Thanks bluebell, thats exactly what im thinking.

[danman83]

Sorry only just seen this DNAon.. well least its a start your son looking healthy.

I just hope he sees sence and comes to see you soon.

But ye i lapsed this sat. I went out and shouldnt of.. i didnt even want to. But im putting it behind me and moving foward.

Im absolutely gutted. Because i know i didnt even want it or wanted to go out

[danman83]

I am happy pal. But im more pissed off knowing i could of stayed in and wanted to. I didnt even want it.

But its not good staying in while yr gf is going out. But ill have accept it.

[danman83]

Thanks louise. It means a lot that. I am just taking it as a glitch..normally in the past i would just eat shit for a week or 2, and not go to the gym. But im back in the gym last night and back to eating healthy. I keep having down moments but im expecting that. I really do feel like not touching it. I hate it.

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Thanks for your replys. Its means a lot. I never even wanted to go out. It was my gf mithering. Ill just have to accept i cant go out like that.

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Im trying not to. Just feel gutted. Because i know i wouldnt of had it if i stayed in. Thanks

[danman83]

Sorry to hear this. Your in a real sticky situation as its your son, but how can he attack you 3 times. Then same again with his grandparents.

It sounds like hes had everything and has had many lifes as a cat. But to be honest weed dont make u do that., i had it for 5 years, but that was in my teenage years and had a temper thats all.

Sounds like if dealers are involved, its got to be cocaine. Id try and find him soon as you can. Sit him down. Tell him he needs get some anger management. To stop the drugs and maybe you will let him come back. Just an idea lol its up 2 you what you want at the end of the day. But if its coke, and im 2 month clean today. He needs get off that shit. But i could be wrong

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For a start alcohol is a depressent so defeats the object of taking anti depressents. But anyway.. im 2month clean today from cocaine.. and cocaine made me want to commit suicide . Even in front of my gf which wasnt good.

Is he on coke? Sounds like he could be.

How old is he?

And what ever he is doing , he must want to quit on his own, because you will never make him. Id sit him down you and your mum, tell him it needs to stop and you aint bailing him out anymore unless he changes.

[danman83]

May be just give it a couple of week.

Does he work?

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Its frustrating me this as well… he can at least come down and see you.. so what is his situation then? Is he still using? Is he off it and staying in the house to stay away from it?

If he was really asleep, was he on it the night before?

Has he not got a brother to go round and to speak to him? I cant remember if ive asked that already.

Your in a real hard situation.. do you leave him to it, and let him come round himself… which you will think, its not showing you care but you do.

Or do you keep on track of him and he might end up getting mad. Its really hard for you.

What has his dad said? Could he not talk him round?

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