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Hey georgia.. so has your bf cut his mates off now? Fair played to him if he has..

But i know what you mean now. You want to start a family and worried he might relapse again.

Ive been thinking same that i prob cant go out ever again in pubs in bton.. every one is sniffing in every toilet you go in!

So i have to accept i cant go in them. Even if i tell my self im ok.

My heads up my ass with it all. My gf going out while im in the house reading a book 🙁

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Hope your ok jennifer, i wouldnt of sold anything. I know its harsh may be a beating might of made him come to some sence.. i seen what ive done to my mum. She said shes struggled sleeping some nights. She said she doesnt want to bury me before her

And ive not got in to debt with it or that. And im 6 week clean tommorow.

You really do need think of yourself. Just try and relax i know its hard. Im sure you said he was aggressive?? Is he still? Or was it some 1 else?..

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Thanks DNAnon i really appreciate it. Yes im doing really good. Ive started reading books now to take my mind off it. Im 35 and ive only read books at school. So this is big change for me lol

But im reading stephen kings revival.. and im glued to it! So its helping me a lot.. thanks

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Selling that shit does not work..1 reason..if u have sell u have it all. My mate who sold it.. was having 800quid a week of it!

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Cdantro have you downloaded the app pocket rehab?? Get it done mate, its for addicts and ex.. it has a page like facebook.. and people put on the drugs they take , how long they are soba.. there is an emergency button that puts you on to some 1 in hour position and you talk about you might want to use, and they suppport you.. i had 1 yesturday and it was a priest in america.. who was addicted to drugs and i had to support him..

Its worth a look.. and believe me it helps sharing your problems and reading other stories.

How you doing anyway? Did u use at weekend?

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Thank you x and yes.. them come downs are awful.. but its all to do with your dopamine in your brain. If you know what they are?

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Hope you both are ok.. its a difficult one heroin. My best mate has turned to this.. and his dad got him on it.

Its sad when i see him like this and i avoid him.

I really cant give any advice on this because ive never it.. but il say maybe tips or try my best..

Does your daughter want to quit?

If she moves in with you for you to help her , i take it she will rob you?

But you dont want to see her on the streets.

But she really needs to want to quit.

May be rehab for to sort her out. Locked away with guidence.

May be look in to that. I dont know if u have to pay or not.

Ive always said to my self if i win the lottery.. id buy a farm in the middle of nowere an island in scotland say..and get heroin addicts who want to quit. Live there and work and get them off it that way.. but thats just a dream lol.

I think you need to sit with her and get it sorted before its to late like you say.

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Sorry popples i got it wrong.. ive now wrote my answer to your question on the original post lol sorry

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Hey poppy.. i wasnt being rude i just thought i answered you on your other post but it was something different lol

Anyway.. ive been clean 5 and half week. Ive got 4 kids a gf.. a good job in the bank. Ive used for 8 to 10 year. Last couple of year got a bit bad. I only used every couple of week. On fridays. Sometimes every friday.. sometimes once a month

New years was the last straw.. my gf said i have it again shes kiking me out!

To stop this and i still need to do it..

Im admitted im addicted.. i want help.. i text my mum coming down of coke crying my eyes out asking for help. I felt ashamed and embarrassed.

Next you have to change your life around. Ive started reading books.. im on stephen king at the mo. And i never have wanted to read! And im loving it.. i have deleted everyone to do with coke out my phone! Ive deleted facebook! Im doing more games with the kids. And the main thing is no alcohol.it triggers it bigtime! Ive bought a few.books on addiction.. russell brands is a good 1..

I feel a lot better , its gonna be hard. But i feel great now. Ive felt a bit shitty last few days but i know i have to do this.

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Well hes using a lot.. i only got 3 grams a time on friday.. but id try and get more.. depending who u get it off its eithee 30 or 40 quid a gram. So hes having like 10 gram.. its a lot. But he will be gettin more than that if hes buying it in bulk..

Does he want to quit? Hes more than likely gonna use more being on his own.. and personally i wouldnt like to be on my own in a flat coming down off coke.

He needs to cut everyone off and delete everyones numbers.

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Popples its a different answer giz 1 min… sorry ..

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Popples ive explained it all on the post you made.. i think you havent looked yet.. its very long so ill let u look on there because i cba typing it out again haha

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Thanks very much

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Cheers mate 🙂

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£60 an hour wow.. suppose its better than putting it up his nose..

The cravings supposedly stop after amonth.. but after that its trickery, his brain tricking him.so tell him be aware if he dont know that.

I can imagine you in the corner of a club just bitting your nails lmao..

Tell him tho most people relapse 4th week and 5th.. so tell him. Be extra careful these next few weeks. Dont drink! Dont see his mates for a few week. Tell him take u out for a meal or summat. Because hes gone this far and the longer he leaves it the better he will feel. Thats my opinion and thats what im doing now. Up 2 him tho that lol.

What the fuk is his brother playing at?? Do they still talk??

And that with the kids. I have 2 with my gf and 1 with my ex.. when our layla was born shes 7.. i said thats it now am quitting.. when our logan was born hes 4.. i said im quitting lol and here i am lol

7 years later 5 weeks clean. But i wasnt having it every day. Or every week. But its not good enough.

So your right. He needs to get fixed and sorted 1st.. then everything else will fall in to place. X

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