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Crack is cocaine tho. Its part of the same family.
And you have to think adam.your having it every 3 days the amount of time your in bed recovering or using, you can be putting it in to more use full things..that take less time and more helpfull and healthier your life will improve so much. I cant say nowt im in the same boat. But ill lose my gf and kids if i carry on.
Heres my num pal {number removed} , if your gonna use and dont want to giz a text or summat and ill support you in not to doing it. Its up 2 u if u want tho mate
Adam, id gone from once every couple of weeks to once a week, only friday.
But ive not told anyone this only my gf, i got some a few times in the day , soba. This never happend for me ever!.
So i new it was gettin worse. Basically you have to change your life around.
Ive started reading books. Some true stories on survival about a guy stuck on a boat that sinks and hes in the water with his crew. Basically its like what we go through and helps. Ive bought russell brands book on addiction. Theres tons of videos on CA meetings people talking about there stories, some are horrible what happens to some people , hence why they turn to drugs. Watch louise clarke on you tube crack cocaine part 1 2 3. Ive just bought her book.she knows shit loads.
When im coming down i have the worse depression and suicidal thoughts ever. My mate ran him self a bath to drown himself once because of it .
But you have to want to quit. Everything u do now. Change it. Delete your mates and dealers numbers. Delete facebook! Go for walks. Gym, make something. Do.summat.
Set yourself goals. Down load the app
Pocket rehab! Its brilliant all addicts on chat helping each other. And theres apart were u can click chat help if you are gonna use and it puts you through to some 1 in your position to talk and help you.
Adam, are you waking up having it? Or just at night?
Do you live on your own or partner or parents?
Even if u have it once a month your an addict. Ive not had it for 21 days now.
Do u drink everytime u get it? Do u want to swap nums pal. And text for support up 2 u that tho mate
No i speak about it and regret it. And i know my gf dont believe ill stop and that annoys me. Sometimes i think she wants me to fuk up. I show her these videos am watching and books about addiction and she dont seem interested.
My mum texts me everyday which is good.
And no any suggestions would help, whatever to stop. I wish i never hung around with the people i did, i wagged school , no gcses, and i regret it all. Im on good money now and work in the bank tho. Am goin on now haha
Well you need tell him get his act together or thats it.. your 22, you have your whole future ahead of you. Do you really want be on here in 10 years time saying.. my bf has had a problem for 10 year now?
Your young, got a bright future, start thinking of yourself. Before its to late!
I wish i could turn back time and so does my gf probably. You still have a chance. So id give him 1 last chance and be stick to your guns. But thats entirely up 2 u
Well thats my problem ive been doing it on my own. You sound a really nice. Tell your bf he will lose you if he carrys on lol
I had 8 councilling sessions about 3 year ago. And it worked till 3 month later and then tyson fury was fighting so i got on it lol.
You think after a couple of month your sorted and ok but your not. Your brain tricks you in to getting it.
And your right hes 22 does he really want to stop going out at his age. I bet its hard for him. Does he drink everynight?
I bet youve tried everything, theres not point giving up if u have been together since you was 14.
And thanks for the kind words.
I cant drink at all now. May be when i go turkey in july. But thats it for me 🙁
Im doing good so far.. im having dreams every night using, and im feeling gutted when i wake up, like ive used.
My story basically, im 35.. been using for 8 year and its been like once every couple of week, sometimes once every 2 month. And sometimes once a week for a month.
But before xmas i went a bit bad. And i had to get help. My gf and mum are helping me.. tell your bf to search louise clarke on you tube and put cocaine/crack part 1. Shes great and helps with coke addiction.
Ive started reading books, which i never do. To take my mind off it, and im decoaratin. Russell brands got a book out on addiction which ive bought.
Theres loads of C A videos on you tube to watch people telling there stories.
And ive just downloaded an app called pocket rehab. Its were addict and ex talk to each other. Its great! And helps!
Going back to the xmas party.. he should be more bothered about his health and you. Instead of showing his face. A lot of people i know have commited suicide from coke. It sends you and the worse downers ever and suicidal thoughts. Ive got 4 kids and have these every time i use. Cried my eyes out alot im ashamed to admit.
But im sorting myself.
Your in a difficult situation angel, its your daughter and you dont want to see her on the streets as she will get even worse. Theres nothing greater than the love for mother and daughter or father and son. So its hard for you. She needs to really want to quit, avoid everyone who she knows is bad. Whatever decisions you make i hope it all goes well.
Ive got a coke problem. But not had it since the new year and i risk losing my gf and kids if i have it again. Im doing everything possible to stay away from the stuff. My trigger for coke is alcohol the min i have it, i have to ring my dealers or mates up for it. Its quite young that to be an alcoholic, but i guess it effects anyone. If u want him off the coke he needs to stay off the beer. What advice can i give to someone whos been to the meetings and knows how to,
Does he want to quit it all?? Thats the main thing. Plus he needs to change his life around and cut all his mates out.
Did u really think he would of stayed soba at his xmas party? Some times you have sacrifice things for you to go forward.
Minute theres alcohol he will want it. Trust me.