[Debbie1966]

Hi, it sounds positive that your daughter is taking important steps of recovery and excepts there is a problem,how many times and does it work is my nagging question,my son as never acknowledged he as a big problem which is plain as day, how do you get intouch with agencies whom offer help/rehab… it’s so frustrating with years of denial and distrust,it’s been a tough one this week with the cycle of drunk nasty mardy ,I’m not sure anymore of what to do other than not to talk as it ends with shouting (at me) I try to let it go over my head but it is tiresome

[Debbie1966]

ladies so sad to read ,the fact of being ours sons and watching them distroying their lives and unable to stop is horrible and draining the years iv felt helpless lonely as it’s not a conversation you want to share with anyone ,so we just lift them up (for a period) them the cycle all starts again ,I too am a new first post was my first ,it so reassuring that we do have something in common (not what we wish for )thanks ladies it’s helpful to share our terrible bits of life with the fact we are unable to change them gosh iv tried n tried ,I hope we continue with this conversation it helps to make it alittle more bearable in our difficult days/week/months ..sharing is helpful ,,I wish for Jack to just stop and never drink again ,it’s a long lonely road for all of us and our families bringing this to us ,,thank you x

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