[detachedmoon]

Hey. I’ve just joined this site out of desperation myself. I could have written your post. It’s a horrible realisation when you notice they are taking it often and lying about it. Realising it’s becoming more and more of a problem and harder and harder to come out of. I’ve been with my partner for 8 years. He’s always dabbled a little with coke but it was very rare. Now it’s weekly/monthly. It’s been this way for two years. We have the big talks. I lose my shit a lot when I recognise he’s taken it. I always say don’t come back to the house if you’ve taken it yet he comes home which makes me feel really disrespected honestly. My wishes are if you take that stay away.

I don’t see much effort from him. I think my problem is I’m a soft touch and he doesn’t think I’ll leave or really do anything to change the situation. I give him a choice. He chooses coke. I still stay. I hope your conversation goes better than ours have. Tonight I’ve asked my boyfriend to seek external help. I’m fed up wasting my life waiting for him to put his family and our future first.

I’m sorry I don’t have any helpful advice really as I’m in a very similar situation. But I understand how you must be feeling right now and I’m sorry you’re going through this! I have seen some posts from addicts who have managed to change so maybe all hope isn’t lost yet x

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