Thanks everyone, i will try turning point.
he did stop for a good while, but then his custody fell through again (nothing to do with drugs) and he started again, it seems to be his go to at stressfull times, now he says its like starting over again…. he always works, never misses a day, sleeps all night and never borrows money.. so i’m hoping he will get a handle on it before it goes too far again. I only noticed this time because i caught him lying and i know that’s when its a downward spiral.
thanks for the help much appreciated