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Yes he has two younger brothers twins aged 14 and it does affect them they don’t have a relationship anymore whereas up until a couple of years ago they all got on great . My son won’t even see his grandparents anymore and they adore him and I can’t tell them they’re 81
I haven’t really spoken to anyone about this in detail probably because I’m in denial
I just want my son to talk to me so we can try and sort this out I’m really scared he’s in trouble
dominoParticipantYes well know it’s so common and after having him in hospital one night blind drunk I took the view that I’d rather he had the occasional joint than get blind drunk but it’s really out of hand now! I shouldn’t blame myself but I do all my dreams for him have fallen by the wayside I know I can only guide and then it’s up to them but I feel as if he’s thrown it all back in my face . He hasn’t had a relationship with his father gor years now and I think this has a lot to do with it although his father denies it that’s another long story though
dominoParticipantOh god I really feel for you .
I was told by a local addiction worker that we would be charged also I had to stop my husband calling the police .
Today I really wanted to call them I was shocked still am.
And after my sons rant he’s just lieing in his room as if nothing has happened he knows he’s got one up on me he knows I won’t tell his dad as I fear that his dad will really hurt him I have no one to talk to .
dominoParticipantTried the police thing however if that happened his dad and I would also be charged with possession! I’m a pharmacist which makes it even worse than it could be if it could be worse!
He’s at. College but he was a clever boy didn’t apply himself got his Nat 5 s failed highers as he didn’t study went back to 6 th year but all friends had left so left school for a college course that was snapped up last kick ! Today after what I have found has confirmed my suspicions especially when I saw this weighing machine and if all the supplies he has is for his own use he has a serious problem I just don’t understand why he has no money why last week he desperately needed 160 i probably do understand but I am still in denial
You say your daughter denies smoking it in the house I think they’re all the same even when confronted with evidence then go off one when caught my son has blamed me for it all I wonder where I went wrong
dominoParticipantNo other phone and I can’t get into his phone although I am bill holder I can see all calls or messages he makes to certain numbers .someone seems to have a grip of him what he has is not for personal use he’s using my money to buy it he never has any of his own money he doesn’t have a bank account the smell from his room is atrocious he doesn’t smoke it in the house but grinds it he did tell me once that he rolls it for people and gets his stuff free but why then is he asking for money all the time there is no evidence of any other drug use he doesn’t drink I’ve never really seen him spaced out he always comes home I never smell it from him but he does have the munchies . He will suddenly leave the house for 10mins then come back but not under the influence of anything he will not talk to me although he promised to explain all in Thursday to me after I transferred money to one of his friends and he said he would stop what he was doing that this was the last I’m such a mug
dominoParticipantNo other phone and I can’t get into his phone although I am bill holder I can see all calls or messages he makes to certain numbers .someone seems to have a grip of him what he has is not for personal use he’s using my money to buy it he never has any of his own money he doesn’t have a bank account the smell from his room is atrocious he doesn’t smoke it in the house but grinds it he did tell me once that he rolls it for people and gets his stuff free but why then is he asking for money all the time there is no evidence of any other drug use he doesn’t drink I’ve never really seen him spaced out he always comes home I never smell it from him but he does have the munchies . He will suddenly leave the house for 10mins then come back but not under the influence of anything he will not talk to me although he promised to explain all in Thursday to me after I transferred money to one of his friends and he said he would stop what he was doing that this was the last I’m such a mug
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