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Glad you are okay. It will get easier I promise. Focus on yourself for a bit and get stronger you can do this.
When your in the midst of everything you thinking is different. You have sort of anxiety and realise what your losing and then get paranoid and anxious
I took me till like day 30 to get my smile back. I’m smiling every day again and my behaviour has calmed down dramatically. I think logically. It’s only took me this long aswell because ice suffered with anxiety as well so when I argued with my ex I used to have little outbursts. Now that’s under control I feel like am back to the old me like me from 1p
0 years ago but wiser. Am happy and am smiling. If I could just explain to people using how different my life is and how worth it is to do. But like they say until someone is ready to change they wont…
All of my aspects of my life have improved and my quality of life is excellent. I’ve got money in my bank. Dont have dealers chasing me week in week out. I’m healthier I look better. My teeth are back white as they was going yellow at one point and yeah.
I might not have my wife back but it’s me now whose realised my quality of life is much better. I am loving myself and I’m a better person without her….
He will batter himself for the way he treated you. I’ve still not forgiven myself but I have accepted what I’ve done and know it cant be changed…
I hope he manages to sort himself.
If you need anything advice or w.e I can tell you what worked for me.
Kids are my world I’ve got them 11 while 4 on sunday
I’m arranging to take them to blackpool in 2 weeks just to sit on beach and let them have some fun as they’ve been through alot recently.
I’ve been working all this week can t wait to have them sunday I really cant.
Its him that’s missing out no one else. He will come when hes ready but if hes using it might be best keeping them away anyway.
Wish I could help you x
Me and my ex have contacted mediation. I pick them up certain days and every other weekend.
We are using early help as a point of contact at the minute because we both agree we cant have a civil conversation without arguing.
Less drama now and I’m happier myself. Things will look up you just have to persevere with different things.
Dont tolerate his crap though. I was a propper head f””” till I got clean and I dont blame her for the way she treats me now.
With this being an anon forum nothing we can do. Maybe message her privately or get a moderator too it will go to her email… all I can suggest
No I haven’t heard anything
Search cocaine enduced psychosis
Will give you a bit more info.
It only kicks in while hes using. I used to get it in uncomfortable situations.
I only got it when having cocaine it was horrible
Right you literally need to leave him or make him leave. He will not get better when he doesn’t want help. I’m day 24 today off it and I’m like a new person… still have mood swings as these can occur up to 10 weeks after but not as bad as when I was on it. Honest truth is he will not change for no one until hes ready… I was made to be ready…
She will throw 9 years away as shes been through it all with me and the using etc. I thank her in a way because I was a lost cause In my head. Deffo never going back there ????????????????????