[drlawgirl]

I completely understand where you are coming from. My husband used to be the same way – just a binge drinker, every few weeks. Now it’s become 2-3 times a week, and usually all night and then all day the next day. It’s become worse as a result of this lockdown as he’s ‘working’ from home and so think it’s okay to now drink whilst working. It is so frustrating. He is honestly the most amazing husband when he’s not drinking so it’s so hard to leave. Plus we have a little one and half year old, and I don’t want to take away his father. But I cry myself to sleep too. And it just seems to be getting worse, and he thinks since he’s only drinking a few times a week, it’s also not a problem. I don’t know what to do to get him to open his eyes to how it’s becoming a bigger problem. I don’t know whether to be supportive and kind, or to cut my losses and move on.

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