[eja]

Hiya, I just wanted to know how you are doing now and if you and your partner have been able to overcome the problems?

I have a similar situation. In March this year my partner and I split up due to finding on his phone him reaching out prostitutes whilst being off his face on coke one random Wednesday evening he was at his friends watching football. It turned out to be a coke addiction which seemed to just get worse from us splitting up. I was completely heartbroken and beside myself that he could of done this to me but he blamed it on his addiction and says the coke hijacks his brain. In May this year he had a breakdown and his family and friends sent him to rehab. He is now out of rehab and is 120 days clean and we are trying to make things work but I seem to have resent and cannot forget what he did to me. I have had trouble eating from March until now and have developed a problem with myself stemmed from this episode in my life. I am torn between believing him that it wasn’t him that night and his addiction took over, and then on the other hand am I just making excuses for a guy who will always be deceitful. We are trying to make things work but I am struggling to let go of what he did to me and we are not getting on because of this reason, and also the fact that I now have my own issues.

xx

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