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Have you tried Turning Point
estaParticipantHi Emma
How’s things?
Getting better with space?
Mine is undergoing in-patient psychiatric assessment still
He is being impulsive and violent
What a waste of life and a good man
Feel very sad but the decisions have all been taken away from me now and strangely the guilt too.
This is his fault he pushed it all to the very limit
He knew the consequences
He actually said to me yesterday how stupid he has been, that he loved me so much.
He then asked me to get him out; when I said I couldn’t he started calling me an f Ing bitch etc
I don’t know if he will ever recover
estaParticipantYou have to reach the point to say ‘no more’ ‘I’m done’.
The energy for the whole cycle to run out
estaParticipant‘just once more’
That is what my husband used to say as he worked himself up to go off and score
March 18, 2021 at 9:29 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21962estaParticipantEverything you say is true
Break the routine of addiction.
we take life for granted
Stay strong ????
estaParticipantI myself had no idea about my husbands use
estaParticipantWhenever my husband had a drink the lift from alcohol would start the cravings for cocaine
March 17, 2021 at 8:15 am in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21867estaParticipant100%
March 16, 2021 at 9:45 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21848estaParticipantTalking on here helps so much; I didn’t realise how deep it all had got.
It helps to face it all.
March 14, 2021 at 2:36 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21766estaParticipantit’s easy now to see the humour in some of the situations but at the time you are fuming!
It’s so hard to accept that things aren’t as they should be
March 14, 2021 at 2:28 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21765estaParticipantHonestly it’s so nice to have insight into other peoples perspective
Sometimes we need to hear it or read it to get clarity
March 14, 2021 at 1:55 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21763estaParticipantYou are doing what you think is right
You know him best
It’s the worst thing ever when the person you love is in crisis
Every situation is different and you will know in your heart what to do
March 14, 2021 at 12:03 pm in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21759estaParticipantA marriage is meant to be a partnership, both on the same side looking out for each other.
Crack divides you completely.
March 14, 2021 at 11:48 am in reply to: Has anyone’s beloved actually quit the cocaine? Or it is just not possible? #21758estaParticipantit will go on as long as we except their behaviour.
We change our whole life to help them, and keep things going. Go without so many things.
The only thing that they change is their degrees of deceit and selfishness which gets bigger
I literally couldn’t be bothered anymore; so sick of being lied to. He could lie bare faced to the pope.
So past the humiliation.
So many times I had caught him out.
Don’t get me wrong I am crippled with emotion but life had to change
estaParticipantEmma
Thank you for your honesty
I really appreciate your posts
I feel better also for your words
You keep your integrity and your sense of worth.
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