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No worries, take care and stay strong x
To be honest I’ve given up hope, my husbands been here and then gone so many times since June, promises the world when he comes back and it all just goes back to how it was, im now getting to the point where I have to start putting myself first instead of him, I know it will be hard but its definitely for the best. Hope your situation can be sorted as I know how awful this is and what drugs destroy x
Ive know about my husbands addiction for a while, ive rang doctors, drug services because he said he wanted to stop, he did cut down alot but he would hide it round the house and then I would find it and he would just leave. He was going out to work, coming in off it and then lying, he lies so much its unbelievable, his behaviour is irratic too, he will get something stupid into his head and if I dont agree he then says its me always putting him down. Ive blamed myself because he says when I get at him it makes him use which is a load of crap, its just an excuse. At the end of the day its them with the problem not us. X
Luckily 3 of my children are a bit older but the younger 2 obviously don’t know whats going on, my youngest cries wanting him and he knows shes been upset but still no phonecall or nothing. Its been going on that long now that I think ive finally came to the realisation that hes never going to stop, as long as he has his coke he couldn’t give a shit about anything else. It is absolutely heartbreaking, hes gone from being a decent hard working bloke to someone I dont even know anymore.
Yea I definitely think we’re both feeling the same right now, I hope it makes u feel a little better knowing your not the only person going through this x
I’m going through the exact same, my husband left me and our children 2 week ago and we haven’t heard anything since. I feel horrendous, ive been given antidepressants off the doctor which I hope will help. I know exactly how u feel and its awful.
I’ve been with him 21 years and we have 5 kids, he hasnt even bothered to see how they are.
Hi, im going through the exact same thing, my husband has always been a social user but since lockdown started hes gone completely off the rails. We have 5 beautiful children and have been together for 21 years but this past 10 month have been horrible. Hes changed into a completely different man, we’ve been on and off since June because of his addiction and finally 2 week ago he left and hasnt been in touch with me since. Its absolutely heartbreaking but unfortunately I have to now let him get on with it as I’ve done everything possible to help and he obviously doesn’t want to stop. I have to try and now be strong for my children and try and focus on myself rather than him.