I started documenting his drinking when he got drunk whilst I was in the hospital with our poorly newborn. He upset my mum and me.
I think you are correct, as things are progressively getting worse and with Christmas around the corner, I am not feeling optimistic. He can embarrasses me at times.
I really do try not to nag, and give him space, but he point blank ignore any attempt I try to make to talk about his drinking, how he’s feeling or how I’m feeling.
It’s just so hard as I see snippets of the man I fell in love with.
But I know you are right. My priority is our children.
Thank you for the advice. I’ll take a look at the help for families section.
I’m sorry to hear about your experience. I grew up without a dad and I really feel for my children, as if I’m honest I’ll be scared for him to have them, if I’m not around. ( I feel awful saying that)
Leaving is not something I will be able to do quickly. Staying with family/friends isn’t an option either.
I do feel.a little trapped if I’m honest
