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Thank you both for an insight I didn’t have before. I think that the use wasn’t regular all through the years but after her second child I think she had post natal depression which I did everything I could to help but I think she started self medicating with it. They have moved a bit further away now but I have reached out to her offering support lately as she had blanked me out if her life for a while. They are supposed to be seeing a marriage counsellor but where my son wants to really work for it she has already asked if they can help if she wants to end the marriage. Only time will see how it all works out I suppose but thank you for replying to this thread and answering a few questions I had nobody else to ask.

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Thanks. Family members threatened to go to child services as it has got so bad so she did a test from online which she failed. She has refused a 9 month follicle test but she doesn’t need to as this tells me all I need to know. They are at a cross roads together where they may split up but I’m scared stiff if this happens as it may just be her and the kids then. My son is in the army so this could really affect their whole life if it gets out. He is really anti drugs himself because of his job. He says that he hasnt had money go out of the account lately so he thinks she can’t buy any. Would you know how long if she can’t get any that she could go without and surely it’s not best to go cold turkey.

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