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I am sorry to hear that. I have taken drugs all my adult life, started smoking dope at 16, then speed, E’s, Cocaine, MDMA, M-Cat, Ketamine etc etc. I am now 43.
I had to re invent myself and I have managed to do it so far but I have removed almost all temptations. I can still drink which I am happy about as socially I enjoy having a drink with friends and family but as far as going pubbing/clubbing I won’t be able to do that for a while I don’t think or ever again (suppose being that im 43 I should be stopping that anyway lol)
I never thought I would end up in the situation I got myself in, i really didn’t. I hear people saying all the time that they aren’t addicted when i can see that they are. It’s a real shame.
This is my first post here. I am clean now for 4 months from cocaine and I put my wife through hell and back with it.
I would do anything on it and I mean anything, it was shameful.
The final straw for me was being caught AGAIN and my wife telling me that she did not know if she could stay with me but if she didn’t that my kids would not be able to see me either as she would not let them come and stay with me if i had a drug problem.
I managed to get to speak to a counsellor and that has made a big difference but I hate to say it, if I didn’t finally want to stop then all the counselling in the world wouldn’t have made any difference.
I hope your husband can make the decision for himself sooner rather than later.