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Kingskid

You are what’s known as an enabler. Sorry to be so blunt but you are allowing him to carry on without repercussions.

People say a person has to hit rock bottom before they ask for help. That’s not the case.

You need to bring his rock bottom to him by telling him that if he doesn’t get the help he needs. There shall be consequences.

These consequences need to be made plain and adhered to. ie: you wont give him money, a place to stay or even stay with him. If it continues.

I know it sounds harsh and uncaring but if he doesn’t care about the consequences. He’s just going to carry on and will drag you down with him. He does have choices and the help is there.

By helping him make the right choice is the ultimate act of love you could ever do for him…Good luck

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