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Oh Frankie I really feel you! I’m sorry to hear to you are going trough.. What I can tell you is: you DON’T need to have strength to deal with him, that’s completely okay and understandable, because nobody should be in that way responsible for someone else life, and have to deal with this.. I know it’s not easy at all, he is still your husband, but we did not come into the world to deal with this.. This is not our responsibility and duty, to change someone who doesn’t want to change.

I think you should think about it, and believe me, there is always a solution to everything, and you deserve to be happy..

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I’m sorry to hear that.. It really sounds like my story.. He will never admit, is true.. But I can tell you, is not because of you, don’t put it on yourself.. he will never change, for sure, not even for you, not even for someone else.. that thing is bigger than him.. Unfortunately it’s very easy to start to think that they will never change not even for us, so that’s mean they don’t love us enough.. is not like this, is just that people can’t change, especially people who has an addiction.. It’s up to us to choose what is better for us, what we want, and deserve for our lives.

I rally start to realise that people are what they are, we can’t change people, it’s gonna be hard and sad, but you will feel better afterwards!

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Oh Irchem I can really feel you! I understand you so much! These relationships will leave a wound in our hearts! I hope you will find yourself again, and feeling better.. I don’t even know if I can ever date someone again.. To me went a little differently, after years of fights, coversations, relapses, therapy etc.. he decided he’s done with all this trying, and literally told he will always be adicted and he will never change, take or loose. That’s it. And if I don’t like, too bad, bye.

Literally he loves more cocaine than me.

So sad.

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I don’t think so, actually I think is very difficult to stop it even with helps.. I’m sorry to hear.. I’m actually breaking up with my boyfriend because of the drugs, and he was even getting help for that..

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