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Im so sorry you are still going through this but only you have the answer. Read back through your previous posts. It has been a year and a half. You can see the pattern. Im sending you big hugs and always here to listen. But all I can say is leaving is the best thing I ever did.
Absolutely agree!
Wonderful fable. Thank you for sharing
You need to remember its not about you. It isnt personal and he didnt do it to hurt you. But I think hes given you a clear indication that this behaviour wont change. It is about him, and your decision is about whether or not you want to accept him as he is. There is no shame in walking away if that means you are going to have a healthy and happy future. Honestly I haven’t looked back, it has taken a long time to recover from the abuse but I am so so so happy I did it. When I was trapped in the cycle it felt like there was no way out but basically I was addicted to him. I was taking him not using as a personal victory and him using as a personal failure. But it isnt about us. You can choose to get off the ride. It takes a lot less strength to leave than to tolerate what you’ve tolerated so far trust me.
Honestly you have gven a lot of time patience, love, understanding. You have gone above and beyond. You dont deserve to be manipulated!
Please choose yourself.
Don’t betray yourself anymore.
Honestly you have gven a lot of time patience, love, understanding. You have gone above and beyond. You dont deserve to be manipulated!
Please choose yourself.
Don’t betray yourself anymore.
Honestly you have gven a lot of time patience, love, understanding. You have gone above and beyond. You dont deserve to be manipulated!
Please choose yourself.
Don’t betray yourself anymore.
Honestly you have gven a lot of time patience, love, understanding. You have gone above and beyond. You dont deserve to be manipulated!
Please choose yourself.
Don’t betray yourself anymore.
You are not overreacting. You set your boundaries, he agreed to them and he broke that. You deserve so much better than this. It sounds as if yoi are being manipulated.
You’ve absolutely done the right thing! Esta’s words are perfect. You need to put yourself first and think about the kind of life you want to be living in a year or in ten years. Stay strong. Sending you love. It was so hard for me to leave my addict but a year on I am so much happier and I wish I had done it sooner. You deserve better
You’ve absolutely done the right thing! Esta’s words are perfect. You need to put yourself first and think about the kind of life you want to be living in a year or in ten years. Stay strong. Sending you love. It was so hard for me to leave my addict but a year on I am so much happier and I wish I had done it sooner. You deserve better
You are not overreacting, its normal that you feel traumatised and dont find it funny. Dont doubt yourself.
Happy for you!!! Well done for putting yourself first. You have take take care of you before you can take care of others. Wishing you both lots of luck!! Xxx
Im very well thanks, nice to hear from you. It has now been 10 months since my ex left and Im feeling much much much better!!! What has happened with you? Xxx
Could you not suggest a home test? Maybe that will give you the answer though I think you already have it. Stay strong and remember you come first. Its a horrible experience having to constantly doubt and look for signs.