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Well I left to a different city but have been reading a lot about the addiction and feel deep In myself that I need to help. When I talk to him he says he is not addicted but he was doing it for two years when I found out, thats almost a year ago. He also drinks a lot… and was smoking a lot of weed when I met him, he said he was stoping weed but then I notice the drinking being very usual, like every day at least one drink and the coke…. I feel.stupid I never noticed anything and so now I really dont know if to believe or not that he has stopped. He warned me not to talk to his parents, and so I left… but my soul its wrecked between leaving him because of all the insults he has said to me… or that I should have seen it as a disease and blame it on the drug and be there for him.no matter what. Idk what to do
Thank you for this words.
Hi len, can you share me some of your experience with your partner recovery? How long was he using it and how did he got off it? My partner told me he was using it for two years but that he was not addicted and says he hasn’t done at lately, but idk anything about how this addiction is. Thank you
He said he was not doing it anymore… we separated but every time we talk he insults me, he have this idea that I cheated on him, he took moments of our life and crooked them into a story of me cheating, Like, we went clubbing one time long ago, now from that time he says I followed his friend to the washroom, and that he even saw my face and he felt the energy of me being ‘shady’ .
Does this kind of very dark thoughs are normal on cocaine users??
He came one time at night with a flashlight looking at every inch of wall saying somebody had been there and that I had been cheating every time he was at work for three years. Idk if this is the drug, of if he may have something else in the head because its delusional and even when I know he is not on drugs, he still says and believes the same…pff.
Hi guys. I discovered that my fiance was using cocaine for two years. Then he said he was stoping and that it was not addictive and that he was not doing it that often…… is that true? How does using cocaine is? I have no idea I alwasy believed him but now idk. Please tell me about your experience. I dont know how to deal with this.