[Gaddict]

I’m really sorry to hear about the struggles you’re facing with your mum’s alcoholism. It’s evident that you care deeply about her wellbeing and want her to get the help she needs. Unfortunately, as you’ve mentioned, your mum’s situation has become dangerous not only to herself but also to others, particularly when it comes to drinking and driving and attending work under the influence.

 

It’s important to acknowledge that you can’t control your mum’s choices, and maintaining your own mental and physical wellbeing is essential. You shouldn’t have to bear the burden of lying to family members, missing your nursing placement or work, and struggling with your own life.

 

In the UK, there are several resources available that could potentially help your mum and provide support for you and your dad. One option is to visit websites that can help you locate rehabilitation facilities and support services for alcohol addiction in your area.

 

In addition to this, you might consider reaching out to the following organizations for further support:

 

– **Al-Anon** (www.al-anonuk.org.uk): Al-Anon offers understanding and support for families and friends of problem drinkers, whether the person is still drinking or not.

 

– **Alcoholics Anonymous** (www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk): AA offers support for individuals struggling with alcoholism through a 12-step program and group meetings.

 

– **Nacoa** (www.nacoa.org.uk): The National Association for Children of Alcoholics (Nacoa) provides information, advice, and support for everyone affected by a parent’s drinking.

 

It’s essential to prioritize your own wellbeing and seek support from friends, family, or professionals. Remember that you can’t force someone to change; they have to be willing to take the necessary steps themselves. It’s crucial for you to focus on your own health, education, and future.

 

Please know that you’re not alone in this, and it’s commendable that you’re reaching out for help. I hope that the resources provided can offer some guidance and support for you and your family.

 

Take care and stay strong.

[Gaddict]

Hi

 

Firstly, thank you for sharing your feelings and struggles regarding your loved one’s addiction. I understand how difficult and heartbreaking this situation is.

I know that with the right treatment, support, and determination, long-term recovery is possible.

I have someone close to me who struggled with cocaine addiction for many years but has now been in recovery for over 15 years. His journey involved intensive outpatient rehab and ongoing group and individual therapy. He also attends regular support group meetings and has made lifestyle changes to avoid triggers and maintain sobriety.

For our relationship, open and honest communication has been key. While there have been some setbacks over the years, we got through them together with patience, compassion, and a reminder of the progress made. Today, our bond is stronger than ever and we are both grateful for the second chance at a healthy connection.

Please remember that although your loved one’s addiction causes pain, you are not alone. There are people and resources that can help you both. I wish you strength and hope during this difficult time. And yes, long-term recovery is possible with determination, the right support, and a loving network of people willing to walk alongside.

I hope this offers some comfort and encouragement. Please feel free to reach out if you have any other questions including information on an outpatient option. I will be thinking of you and your loved one.

[Gaddict]

Dear friend,

 

It sounds like the cocaine use has become a worrying problem for you and is impacting multiple areas of your life. You deserve compassion and support as you seek to make positive changes. Here are some tips:

 

1) Speak to your partner. Explain how serious this has become for you and ask for their support in quitting. Having them commit to quitting with you could be very helpful.

 

2) Avoid the social situations that trigger your cocaine use for now. Say no to invites that involve drugs.

 

3) Seek professional support. The website http://www.findrehab.co.uk has a directory of addiction treatment programs and rehab centers in the UK. Rehab can provide medical detox, therapy, life skills training and ongoing support to quit for good.

 

4) Talk to your doctor. They can assist you in safely tapering use and provide medical and psychological support. Be honest about your usage levels.

 

5) Focus on your “why”. You mentioned wanting to feel pretty again, save money and improve your health. Remind yourself of these core motivations whenever a craving strikes.

 

6) Find new coping strategies. Exercise, meditation, journaling and nurturing hobbies can help rewire your brain away from drug use.

 

7) Take it one day at a time. Don’t get overwhelmed – just focus on getting through today drug-free, then do the same tomorrow.

 

You have the power within you to make this change. Reach out for support, be kind to yourself and take practical steps forward. I wish you strength and courage on your journey towards a healthier, happier life. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

 

Wishing you all the very best.

[Gaddict]

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Hi,

I’m so sorry to hear that your son is struggling with drug use. It sounds like you’re feeling a lot of guilt and sadness right now, and that’s completely understandable.

It’s important to remember that you’re not alone in this. Drug addiction is a very common problem, and there are many resources available to help you and your son.

First, I want to assure you that it’s not your fault that your son is using drugs. Drug addiction is a complex problem, and there are many factors that can contribute to it. Your own depression when he was 12 may have played a role, but it’s certainly not the only factor.

The most important thing right now is to get your son the help he needs. I would recommend that you start by talking to your doctor. They can assess your son’s situation and recommend a treatment plan.

I would also recommend that you check out http://www.findrehab.co.uk. This website has a wealth of information about different rehabilitation centers in the UK. You can use the website to find a center that’s right for your son’s needs.

I know that this is a difficult time for you, but I want to encourage you to stay strong. There is help available, and your son can get better.

I hope this helps. Please feel free to reach out if you have any other questions.

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