Hi lovely. Thank you for your reply. I had run and we’ve been apart for 6 months. After reading all the comments it made me realise that all his behaviour is part and parcel of his addiction nit that he’s a horrible person. If he turns it around maybe just maybe I’ll get the man back that I married. He has lost everything and is at rock bottom so hopefully the only way is up. Maybe I’m being nieve but I have to try…. at least then in my own mind I can move on knowing I dud all that I can.