Just wanted to check back in and thank everyone for their comments – it’s good, although also horrible, to know that there are others in the same position. It’s bring comfort to know that I’m not alone. My partner has managed to reduce down somewhat but is still drinking every day. He’s made contact with an alcohol addiction service but insists he can get better on his own. I won’t believe that until I see it though… I feel like I’ve heard it all before.