[gracey2002]

Yeh we are separated. Be done the begging thing saying it won’t happen again and that he just wants to be a family, but I’ve heard it over and over again I’ve just gotten really sick of it. I love him so much and I really tried for over a year but it got nowhere. Im so sorry to hear that! It’s really said that it has got to that point but I totally understand, if you’re not ready to bring a baby into the world then that is your choice, especially if you’re not being supported. Horrible that it has gotten to that point, it really ruins lives. Being in jail might even make him worse, my ex’s dad was a drug dealer, he came out of prison addicted to heroin. Not trying to scare you or anything but sometimes they are so desperate for anything that they will take whatever is there

[gracey2002]

Yes! That’s exactly what it’s like. My ex explained it to me how when they are on a comedown their emotions are hightened and they feel depressed. Not only because they say they don’t want to do it but because of the betrayal they have caused towards you. I would end up feeling bad because he would cry and apologise and say how suicidal he feels but if you think about it that’s just the comedown, once the comedown is over they are fine and don’t regret it as much. My daughter wasn’t long born and he is still using. I have tried my hardest but he still lashes out at me and says I’ve never been there for them because I’ve left him. It gets to a point where you just can’t bear it anymore x

[gracey2002]

They never change, I’ve just split with my ex and to be honest I feel miles better. I still feel upset that he is going away and taking stuff but its their life they are ruining. He’s never been aggressive or nasty to me but I still don’t like him taking drugs. I would definitely leave it if I were you, my friends ex partner was always taking coke and he ended up nearly killing her when he was on one of his coke binges, don’t let it get to that, you will have lots of support around you to leave. I know it is hard

[gracey2002]

That is the same with me! He promised a million times that he just wanted to be a dad and never wants to touch the stuff again, he took it all the way through my pregnancy, he took it when I thought I was in labour and he never made it. Once baby came he still Carry’s on taking it. It never stops, it takes years and years for them to grow up and realise they have better things in life

[gracey2002]

I’m in the exact same position as you! I’m always the one to blame, it’s like they see it as you can’t take a joke but they’re not joking, it’s the drugs talking. It gets really frustrating. I’ve just split up with him. He’s been taking drugs for too long and it never stops until they properly grow up

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