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My ex used to use a salt water solution in a bottle… you just squirt it up your nose and out and it helps keep it clean. If you stop using the drugs it should start to go down naturally but if it is an infection…You may need antibiotics though which can only be given by a Dr .. dont be too scared to go. x
So sorry you are going through this. I’m currently facing the same battle… my husband is a cocaine and alcohol addict and I’ve tried for over a year to get him help.
I kicked him out as it was getting too much and he has accepted he has an issue now and gone to rehab but I just don’t know how I can take him back after all of the lies. 🙁
I feel that same responsibility for him and don’t want him to struggle alone but I’ve put my life on hold and tried for so long I’m exhausted. There’s no trust left so how do you move forward?
This is exactly how my husband makes me feel .. like I’m going crazy. The sniffing, snoring, heavy breathing, sweating and sneaking around. He thinks I’m stupid… I now know I’m not… I was just in love, naive and maybe didn’t want to believe it.
I’m pleased you found the courage to leave him…. I feel the same way… he chose coke and I need to choose me but it’s just so hard to leave as it’s hit me from out of the blue. I’ve moved out…. he says he’s going to rehab but even so…. I can’t forgive all of the lying and sneaking about doing stuff behind my back.
This post really resonated and I’m sorry to see so many others are going through this.
I recently found out my husband has a bad cocaine addiction. He has lied over and over to me, leaving me feeling confused and worthless. We had everything and 90% of our time together has been perfect.
I’m struggling to understand what caused him to just take coke at home and why he chose that over our life together.
I’m heartbroken and feel like the rug has been pulled from under my feet.
I want to help him but I’ve currently moved out as I can’t cope and feel like it’s over.