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I tried to talk to him earlier but he was reluctant to talk, I said why don’t you want to talk about it and he said it’s because I’m ashamed, he said he didn’t have anything tuesday and only had two lines yesterday, he seemed ‘normal’ today no wide eyes and he ate all his dinner that I cooked him, he said I want to stop and I will stop,and the conversation ended, he said he won’t be having any tomorrow, oh god it’s like I don’t want to be in this ‘space’ with him but I can’t help want to help him !!

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I’m just plucking up the courage to have the talk, I’m keeping my distance at the moment, to be honest I feel numb about it all, since he confessed I’m not feeling any urge to text him or want him here, but he texts all the time asking how I am, what I’m up to, I just feel not bothered to text, I can’t stop thinking that he’s just going to get worse that’s all that’s on my mind.

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Please can you let me know how it goes, I wish you all the luck in the world,don’t be a stranger please keep in touch.

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Thankyou Dan I’ve just watched the you tube video, along with yourself it’s helped to understand a bit more about the situation I’m dealing with, I hope you don’t mind me reaching out you in the future as I know I’ll most probably need it !!

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Yes it’s a terrible drug!! You can’t visibly see this hole he said the hole is up his nose where his two nostrils meet in the middle, and sometimes see him picking his nose quite a lot which he never did when we first got together, I’ve also noticed over the last year his snoring is so intense I’d rather sleep else where.

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Yes we’ve got two together

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And when he admitted all this the admission wasn’t on a come down it was obviously on a high because we’d just been out for drinks with friends.

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He goes out twice a week and that’s every week, he told me before we got together that his ex partner tried to control when he went out, and that he would never let himself be controlled like that again, he said she was mentally abusive and he made his life hell, so the last thing I wanted to do was control when he goes out, if you can see where I’m coming from

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And I was aware he did it on the odd occasion at Christmas etc, but lately he comes from work and won’t even stay for coffee, but it’s early in the week so I assumed no way surely, but now my heads in over drive!!

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He’s earn’s between £600-£700 a week

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Just wondering how many years do you think he’s been doing this to end up having a hole in his nose?? If he was to just stop taking it altogether will he become seriously ill?? Will he need to wean himself off before he stops?? It’s like I’m living a nightmare!! I don’t know where to turn.

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