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I really feel for you, you cant help your feelings and the love you have for him, remembering the good times, and you want to believe he will change and you hang on to that tiny thread. I know I’ve been with my partner 16yrs and you feel like your on a roundabout going round in circles, my partner has a heart condition on top of the addiction, there are times when enough is enough and I want to end the relationship and say you won Heroin, but then there’s times where I think its not going to beat us and he will get through it, life is a rollercoaster. I just hope and pray one day my partner regains control of his life, and that we can be a ‘normal family’ I live in hope for us all xxx
hope-faithParticipantHi, just want to say your one strong lady and you have an amazing strong family. You should be very proud of yourself, you are living proof there is light at the end of the tunnel xxx you truly have to want it to come as far as you are. Take care
hope-faithParticipantHi, very true words spoken. My heart goes out to you and your Daughter, your a very brave lady. I to dread that phone call and yes my partner believes it will never happen to him, he to has a beautiful Daughter who is growing into a young lady, he also has 2 stepsons one of them who would go to the end of the earth for him, I just hope he comes to his senses before its to late, I know this is a terrible thing to say but at times I feel we’ve already lost him. Take care my thoughts are with you xxx
hope-faithParticipantHi, don’t feel guilty or doubt yourself in how your dealing with your situation. Your own family must come first, there is no right or wrong way trust me I know. I feel for you, your Mom I guess sees what’s in front of her, she like you is probably exasperated, and who can blame her for wanting to believe in your Brother. I have personal experience in what your going through, my partner has a heroin addiction, it rips the heart out of your family, he has struggled off and on for 15yrs. I do believe its a addiction, illness but they have to want to help themselves, no matter what we do to help it means nothing if it doesn’t come from them and they have to be 100% commited. I wish you all the best for the future and I live in hope that one day I and all the other families can live a’ normal ‘ life xxx
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