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Don’t know how to edit this but that should have said can’t bear it ,not can

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Pat and Primrose I’m in the same situation as you both

My husband used to drink 6 days a week and hold down a job

His drinking and a few other problems ended our maraige after 25 years

He moved away and came back after a while

I helped him sort out a new flat and he stopped drinking

He really is the most kind and thoughtful person when he isn’t drinking

After a while we became close again and we re married

Just after this he started drinking again , but only at weekends ( what man doesn’t is his war cry )

He usually gets really drunk after 1 or 2 glasses now and that’s were all the vile things start to come out

I’m no angel and argue back

I honestly can bear it when he drinks

I can’t go to family and friends as I’m embarrassed that I let myself get into this situation again

So I pretend all is ok

I hope both your situations improve

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I’m so sorry for your situation

I don’t have any advice as I’m in a similar situation with my husband most weekends

I don’t have the worry of children any more though

I really hope you get respite for the kids and can get a break from him too

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