[janet111]

Hi holly p I understand how you feel it’s horrible when the drinking takes over your life Iv been stuck in the same situation for years now should have left along time ago but can’t bring myself to do it you need to do what’s best for you and your child put yourselves first hope your ok x

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Btw your not losing your mind x

[janet111]

Hi Iv just read your story hope your ok have you spoken to your doctor? It’s not nice when they don’t admit the damage there drinking does to us seems like there’s always the denial there you take care x

[janet111]

Thank you

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Thank you both I am so glad I found this forum it’s good to know at your darkest time there are people who truly understand x

[janet111]

Than you I’m starting to get scared that I’m going to find him dead one day he looks awful but won’t stop

[janet111]

Thank you just feel so fed up it’s constant drinking I don’t understand why he does it to himself

[janet111]

Hi girls hope you are both ok x

[janet111]

You also take care x

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Thank you both for taking time to talk to me x

[janet111]

My daughter always says I deserve a better life because all I ever do is try to help people but I can’t make myself leave which makes me angry

[janet111]

Your not the only only one soph I hold out hope too but realistically I don’t think there is hope it’s been about 10 years on and off really bad and continuously about 4/5 years I lost my dad then my mum 2020 just 5 month apart and it nearly broke me but here I am still putting up with all this clairebear don’t ever feel lonely i am so glad I found this x

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Hi Claire bear hope your ok it’s horrible when it affects the kids we are so lucky to have kids and sometimes alcoholics just don’t realise how precious they are I hated when he used to get drunk on holiday and we would get nervous incase he started arguing it’s really not fair it makes them so selfish x

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Hi Soph I just can’t make myself leave if anything happened I would never forgive myself I know it’s stupid cos will probably happen anyway but no matter how bad it gets I just can’t go x

[janet111]

Hi I’m fine just really fed up I tried to talk to him yesterday asking him to get help he said no he’s already been in hospital with alcohol hepatitis if he keeps going it will happen again. I don’t think they realise how off putting it is to try to kiss or anything else someone who’s drunk and stinks of drink I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if it was other way round they just seem to expect you to always be ok with them hope your ok I’m here anytime u want to chat x

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