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  • in reply to: My husband is a heroin addict #12679
    janette132
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    Awww thanks for your message and I’m exactly in the same boat …. I’ve lived alone before and I’m sure I can do it again …. but I’ve told him if I catch him using again we are definitely over x I keep saying this but he worms his way back into my life x

    I need to harden up I know !

    in reply to: I’m not paying for his drugs no more #12560
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    Most definitely not NO……

    in reply to: I’m not paying for his drugs no more #12558
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    Nope x told him I can’t take it no more ….

    And don’t even ask me coz the answer will be a NO … so it’s bin 5 days and he used once x but not near me x so let’s see how things go ….

    this is his last chance and he knows it too x

    in reply to: I’m not paying for his drugs no more #12556
    janette132
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    Much the same really x nearly finished it with him today ….

    told him, sort your shit out or your gone x

    in reply to: I’m not paying for his drugs no more #12488
    janette132
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    It’s my house x he has nothing ….. I mean nothing !!!!!

    in reply to: My husband is a heroin addict #12485
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    Thank you x

    in reply to: My husband is a heroin addict #12474
    janette132
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    Love to talk more Stacey x

    I’m sat on a street corner while he scoring and I’m typing this to you x

    I’m on Facebook

    Janette plant x I got glasses on my Facebook picture x

    in reply to: I’m not paying for his drugs no more #12473
    janette132
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    Thanks for your reply dan, I’m so emotional reading your reply and no I don’t have kids which is a good thing suppose x yes he is dragging me down and I’m just about seeing the light x I can’t take it much more x I know I need a kick up the arse and he making me out to be a different person that I know I am too …

    in reply to: My husband is a heroin addict #12471
    janette132
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    Mine been going on since November last year x says exactly the same ….

    I can’t take much more if I’m honest x

    in reply to: My husband is a heroin addict #12468
    janette132
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    Hi Stacey

    Well I’m in the same situation as you but I’m not married. My partner is a heroin addict and he uses in front of me which I tell him every time not too,

    My partner doesn’t work and doesn’t bring any money in and expects me to pay for his habit which I have been doing because I hate seeing him withdrawing and his mood swings, today he is crawling the walls because I’ve no money left to pay for his addiction and I’m not going to pay my hard earned money on that stuff x

    in reply to: Can’t take his drug addiction anymore #12397
    janette132
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    He is a heroin addict x ????

    I get so embarrassed coz he is unkempt

    in reply to: Can’t take his drug addiction anymore #12382
    janette132
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    Thankyou x yes I pay for his habit but he bleeding me dry if I’m honest x but it’s only his mood swings that drive to pay coz he is horrible to be around x

    No he says he can handle things hisself but he clearly can’t

    in reply to: I feel frustrated….. #11685
    janette132
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    Evening x

    Well to my amazement everything going well….

    He still not used and I’m so proved of him coz I can’t even imagine how hard it must be cold turkey on his own without any help apart from me.

    He told me today that he has never had an ultimatum before and being 47 and bin a regular drug user that he truely fell in love and wanting me was far better option then me using drugs.

    I told him today that one of his drug friends tried to contact me though Facebook to get to him and he told me to block him coz I’m done with all my drug friends, I don’t want anything to do with them anymore …..

    I’m so happy at the moment, I just don’t want the bubble to burst x

    in reply to: I feel frustrated….. #11666
    janette132
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    Any other woman would of run a million miles away honestly specially when we’ve only bin together 8 months x

    But I have fell in love with him and I have to be cruel to be kind x I did tell him that I’ve never bin around people using drugs before and I can’t handle seeing him destroying his life and at 47 he never gonna get anywhere in life only he be dead if he carried on the way he was using x

    Now he found me and someone that truely loves the bones of him, it was now or never really x x

    Plus the 5 days he not bin using has been hell x from him hallucinating to him throwing up everywhere and crying like a baby but ….. I’m sticking by him and I’m not giving up on him but I’ve told him I’m not prepared to go though this again with him once and once only x

    in reply to: I feel frustrated….. #11664
    janette132
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    Hi x

    Well he is only on day 5 and he was a heroin user and Tramadol, wow it’s painful to type them out loud but a relief too x yesterday and today he looks and sounds really miserable but I try and keep him positive and what a difference he looks even only on day 5.

    When we use to go out or even to town together he use be pumping with sweat even if it was freezing outside to the point it was rolling down his face it was so embarrassing coz you could see people looking x but today we went out and not a bit of sweat appeared, yey…..

    and I have pointed that out to him too x

    Just pray that he has the will power to stay off the devastating drug x

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