[janeyj47]

Sad and tired….I no what you are trying to do. Whilst my son was working I was paying his car insurance and petrol money just so he could keep his job. I knew if he lost his job then it would all fall back on me financially. I done this for 2 years and now he has lost his driving licence due to his foolishness. He lost his job because it was driving and now he is constantly on me for money. His dole money that he gets once a fortnight gets spend in 1/2 days. It is a daily battle with him. Now he actually threatens me and last night smashed a hole in my living room wall. Like you I am just so tired of this. I have learnt one thing and that is whatever you try and do for them it is never enough. He wants money daily and while its ok for some people to say no and stick to it with my son at the moment I just no that it will end up with him actually attacking me. That’s the truth. It has come to this. Something has to happen to actually stop all this. I just cant do this on my own or my way anymore. It will come to a head soon.

[janeyj47]

Thank you for your kind words. I no what I should do but he has turned into such a monster. Last night he smashed a hole in my living room wall in temper. Tonight yet again he has kicked off. He got his dole money today and just came in for the £60 he gave me earlier. So by the end of tonight all his dole money will be gone. My son has no shame. He will come into my work and make a scene, I have managed to avoid it so far, or smash things in my flat. I actually fear him at the moment and he is getting worse these past few weeks. I could call the police and get him arrested but he will just keep coming back. My landlady has a shop under my flat and she wont have all this going on. It is not fair on her. I can leave and go and stay with a friend. My doctor would sign me off sick. I have been hoping that it wouldn’t come to this but I really cant take much more

[janeyj47]

Hi everyone I am new to this site. I am going through the same thing with my 29 year old son who unfortunately lives with me. He split up with his ex 2 years ago and came back to me where he has just about abused me everyday verbally. He does not work as was banned from driving so lost his driving job. Even when he was working he spent his wages on drugs, cocaine and weed. within a few days. I rent my flat, which is above a shop, and my landlord works in the shop everyday and because of this I have to give into my sons demands for money. He would think nothing of causing a scene. He throws things around he knows eventually I will give him the money. I cant confide in my landlord for fear of eviction. Today I was woken by a man screaming up to my flat for my son as he owed him money. My landlord was in his shop. My son always threatens that he owes people money for drugs he buys on ‘tick’ and they are coming around which would cause a scene. I am in debt up to my eyeballs. I lend money off family and friends. Luckily my mother and daughter don’t live in this area so don’t no whats going on with him. I cant tell them as there is nothing they can do. I have nowhere else I can go. I work full time so cant just take off and stay with my family or friends. What can I do???

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