[Janie13]

Hi my 27 year old daughter is on cocaine, alcohol and other tablets.
I want walk away I would if it was not for my 12 year grandson, your properly doing the maths ,yes she was 15 when she had her son .
I have had 12 years old hell,my grandson who has learning disabilities is brainwashed now and hates me ,but i will still try and have him rather than he go into care.
The start of any sort of recovery is they have to admit they addicts, my daughter wont,and usually they have to try help in the community first going to meetings everyday, its not easy getting into rehap unless you pay private which is not much short of £1000 a week (yes a week )
In my experience of rehap only a handful of people make it ,i heard of endless deaths of those who left us after completing there 3,6,9 months with us.
I lost a partner to alcohol .
My daughter too has drained me of money
She wont talk to me now because i spoke to her social worker.drugs make them paranoid completely destroy the brain.

[Janie13]

Thanks for replying, just you talking to me in the same position is such a help.

My daughter keeps saying I have ruined her and my grandson life, because when I saw her last I could not believe what I saw,how can I as a parent and grandmother sit back and do nothing and now I have lost them,I don’t even know where she living ,because she got kicked out the temporary accommodation she was in

I will still be there to take my grandson even thou he hates me ,because it’s looks like they going to start court proceedings.

I worked in drug rehabilitation for 8 years ,so I know a fair bit about addiction, and the people who came to us where in the cutter ,most had lost everything, my daughter blames everyone else but herself  cocaine is a evil drug,which destroys the brain, and many will go on to heroine from cocaine.

So I keep telling myself she is ill and the drugs have destroyed her ,but it also destroying the whole family.
<p style=”text-align: center;”>Like you are feel such a failer as a mother .dies your son admit he has a problem.</p>

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