[jasminnie]

Thankyou so much, I’m starting to think there is no right or wrong when it comes to addiction. When I have calmed down I will get in touch with him. I have given him those numbers and is not interested

[jasminnie]

Thankyou, kicking him out doesn’t sit right with me at all but for my own sanity and health I cannot see any other way

[jasminnie]

So I have kicked my son out again, which breaks my heart. He wanted money and I said no so as usual he starts calling me all the names under the sun and it really hurts.

He’s admitted he pays between £300 & £500 a week on cocain and is always skint. He has also tried kicking the door in if we don’t let him. In, we’ve had the police but that doesn’t seem to help. I feel I need to start giving him tough love, I’ve had to block him on all communication levels as I cannot deal with the abuse he sends me.

[jasminnie]

So I have kicked my son out again, which breaks my heart. He wanted money and I said no so as usual he starts calling me all the names under the sun and it really hurts.

He’s admitted he pays between £300 & £500 a week on cocain and is always skint. He has also tried kicking the door in if we don’t let him. In, we’ve had the police but that doesn’t seem to help. I feel I need to start giving him tough love, I’ve had to block him on all communication levels as I cannot deal with the abuse he sends me.

[jasminnie]

Yes he does, I figure if he’s with us we can keep an eye on him

[jasminnie]

Yes

[jasminnie]

Thankyou

[jasminnie]

They need to accept they need help, otherwise there is no help out there, apart from counciling for us. They either live or die in my opinion as there is no help for them. Unless they admit they need help ????

[jasminnie]

My son rang me last night wanting £20 for fuel. He got really nasty when I said no. It’s the first time I have said no (trying the tough love thing) so now he said he wants nothing to do with me which Hurts like hell, its so hard but I am skint too now and every other week I have never got the money back and I cannot keep going on like this, the atmosphere in the house is awful.

[jasminnie]

Can you not get the police to sort out the dealers? Sorry if I sound nieve, I am totally lost in all this and not got a clue

[jasminnie]

I am absolutely lost and don’t know what to do anymore

[jasminnie]

I am Really struggling with all this shit…. I rang Frank earlier, they wanted me to talk to a senior person, but from past experience I know it won’t help.

With there were more laws legally to help young people like this so it gets nipped on the bud before it all goes totally tits up and before you know it they themselves are dead or somebody else is ????

[jasminnie]

Wish I could talk to you

[jasminnie]

I feel like I want to Kick. My son out but I know I will feel guilty and cannot do. Wish he would go On his own free will. I have sat and cried this morning

[jasminnie]

Omg don’t do it, don’t take out a loan, I know it’s hard and I am exactly in the same situation as you. I have found knives in my sons bedroom too.

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