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Well since my last post in July I was diagnosed with cancer I had my operation during this time I was confined to my room to rest my husband really looked after me .but after a while he started drinking again. When my treatment came to an end my husband was diagnosed with cancer of the bladder we could not believe that both of us had cancer. He had the operation he had to go for chemo the doctor went mad at him for drinking he said because of his drinking they could only risk a little chemo but they said he must not drink at all before or during or after treatment.his treatment Finnish four weeks ago heis suffering side effects of his treatment I was so proud of him not drinking as I thought. On Wednesday night of this week I was letting the dog out and he had put a walking stuck near the door near the back of my dryer I thought this strange so I got a torch to investigate there it was a brandy bottle he had purchased that afternoon nearly all gone. I really do not know what to do . Shall I confront him or should I wait until another bottle appears imam really worried he looks awful going to bed at 5 pm not feeling right no wonder his treatment is still working so how will the drink effect it now
following the above comment. my husband is a good man he will do anything for anyone he is ok during the day but as evenning draws in his charictor changes he becomes verbly agresive. he alwaqys goes to bed before me know if we go at the same time he says thing to cause a row then i cannot sleep after. the other evenning i heard him pacing up and down the bedroom floor i am worried incase he is seeing things again is memory is also being afected by the drink i dont know what to do we are both in our 70s i really dont need this worry it is afecting my own health what can i do
my husband is an alcoholic but in denile. About two years ago i got him into hospital because he started to see things this really frightened me. he was in hospital for weeks and he then acepted he was an alcoholic. He took all the tablets they gave him he decided to drink none alcohol bear but then he went on to other things he drinks brandy as well as beer. He hides it all over the house he is now in denile. I have told his sons they came emptied all the bottles down the sink but of course it makes no differents.
this is so difficult they say they want money for food of bus fare to get to work but do they my daughter is trying to get off drug addiction she is ok mfor a while but admits when she gets stressed out she starts takeing again. I gave her £20 to day for food I know i will never get it back but is it really going on food or something else she also pauwns things to get money but the money she is getting she should be able to manage