Yes he has had counselling both at the time we first found out and more recently. Also my husband and I cashed in savings some years back and paid for several months rehab. Things went well for awhile but he seems back to square one. Can’t talk too much with hubby as he has detached himself as he is older than me and has more health issues. As I said he can be such a nice person and was so good to his grandad in his last years but just feel we are loosing that person. I find myself now in tears most days in frustration. He lives an hours drive away with his girlfriend so just don’t know how I can do anything more.