[jenna]

Hi Brookie 10 I’m so sorry about what you are going through. When I heard your story I thought I was listening to my husband. He is an alcoholic. He denies being one always has. He has manipulated me to the point of me believing that I was somehow responsible. I was with him for 27 years we have been separated now for 1 year when I found out he was cheating.He found a woman who also drinks who enables him. I am currently going through therapy and the therapist has taught me 1. He is an ADULT and responsible for his own behaviour not me.

2. He is a manipulator and abusive and his alcoholism makes it worse.

3 I cannot help him no matter what I say or do HE has to go for help.

4. He will not change things will only get worse.

Life is not easy right now but at least I don’t feel like. It’s my job to fix him it is his.

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