Thank you for replying. You’re right, did actually say he was embarrassed about it but did say he would get help. But as far as I know he has not done anything about it. I will check out SMART but obviously I am worried about taking control when it should be him that’s doing it. I’m very wary of telling him what to do but I’ll try to find a way. Thank you so much and I hope it all works out for you and your husband.