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Thank you . I don’t know why i let this get to me . I always think back to how charming loving caring he was at the beginning of the relationship and how much he has changed now. I don’t know why i fear he might find someone better and move on . I don’t know why he is always telling me about other women then he comes back crying to me. Do you think he will leave me for another women?
Thank you . I don’t know why i let this get to me . I always think back to how charming loving caring he was at the beginning of the relationship and how much he has changed now. I don’t know why i fear he might find someone better and move on . I don’t know why he is always telling me about other women then he comes back crying to me. Do you think he will leave me for another women?
Thank you . I don’t know why i let this get to me . I always think back to how charming loving caring he was at the beginning of the relationship and how much he has changed now. I don’t know why i fear he might find someone better and move on . I don’t know why he is always telling me about other women then he comes back crying to me.
He blames me for all the arguing and all the troubles in our marriage. He caught me chatting to other men and that killed him. I did that to get revenge so he can taste his own medicine. I even lent him money took loans out for him which he never paid back and i was evicted from my house and he left me
He tells me all the time he can start a new relationship with someone better than me who will love him respect him etc . I sometimes think what if he actually leaves me for real and is much better off without me then i make up with him. I forgive him easily. He is a narcissist.
Iv done soo much for this guy. He doesn’t provide for me or help with anything. At times when he is in a good mood and when it suits him he will help out a little here and there and give me money then i forgive him
I found mine chatting to other women and i kicked him out. He wasn’t even living with me full time. He lives at his mums house more than he did with me. He sniffs cocaine and drinks alcohol usually on a night and sleeps in during the day. Iv been cheated on in the past from my ex husband who i have kids too aswel and he threatens me to leave me like my ex did and scares me that i will be a single parent again then he blocks my number and unblocks it whenever it suits him . Now he has changed his number and calls me from no caller id but has left me unblocked on whats app. He is confusing me. He tells me he doesn’t want me no more.
Then he comes knocking on my door begging me to take him beg and tells me he is sorry etc.
Thank you . My husband chats to other women and is always telling me he has alot of women that are interested in him that want to marry him so I should respect him and be good to me otherwise he will leave me . Does your husband say things like this too.
I recently have had a miscarriage to my husband and he was not supportive at all . He was soo abusive. He said the most hurtful things to me ever. It broke me down totally. Im now thinking of getting a divorce. Im fed up
Im having the same problem . My husband is soo abusive towards me . He sniffs cocaine drinks alcohol every 2nd night . He takes one day break to rest then he starts again. I have no support from me what so ever. He takes no responsibility for the finances or the house or the kids. I feel like im on my own doing everything.
Soo sad . I have come back on the forum after a year .
Hi i wanted to ask can someone be on cocaine and dabble?
Cocaine is very addictive . Don’t be fooled by the good days you have with him . Them days are most likely his days off the drugs .. rest day for him and his body so he needs support at that time because he is feeling depressed and is on a downer.
I have blocked my partner from everywhere from contacting me and iv got rid of him .
Best thing iv ever done . Now im at peace .
You will mess your own mental health up fixing him and he is not going to change unless he wants to .
Sorry but I’m being straight up with you.
He will be cheating on you talking to other women having sex etc then returning to you.
Hi guys .. just reading your posts and your story sounds identical to mine but unfortunately i have a baby to my cocaine addict and alcoholic partner .
So let me start by introducing my experience with him ..
Been in a relationship of 8 years with him where 4 years of that went without me having any knowledge of him taking cocaine. He hid it well from me . I always knew that he occasionally but very rarely drank Alcohol and he smoked cannabis on a regular basis daily.
As i was trying my best to stop him from drinking Alcohol he was a cocaine addict and has been a user since the age of 15 and he is now in his mid 30’s.
Cut the story short .. he will not change not for me not for his parents and hasn’t changed for his daughters sake .
If anything he has got worse .
He is a liar a cheat a manipulative scum bag and a total waste .
He becomes very violent aggressive and abusive which used to leave me questioning myself .
Financially it broke us apart .. he was spending too much to feed his habit and not giving money for bills etc .
So he snorts cocaine 2 days then 3rd & 4th has a rest and the cycle starts again.
Iv done everything in my power to help him and stop but nothing worked .
For short time he will apologise and promise not to do it again but it’s all lies to win me and my trust back .
Only solution to this is get rid of him .