Hello I’m in the same situation been with my partner ten years and he has a drug and alcohol problem I worry when it’s time for him to come home and it’s scary because never know he is. He sometimes disappears for days I end up having to look after him – I do everything for him but when on drugs I’m a no body and he messages other people practically begging by calling and calling he says it’s not him it’s two different people but who chooses to take the drugs? Tried getting him help so many times and now I feel if I don’t start again soon there’s no point I love him so much but how can I have kids with someone who’s addicted to drugs? 🙁 I can’t.